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In thinking having more than 5 sexual partners doesn't make you a raging whore bag?

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fifithefoof · 14/10/2018 00:43

Following on from the last thread .....

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Thenewdoctor · 18/10/2018 18:10

Mr FTF is good with his hands as well.

😂😂😂

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:16

It surely wouldn't matter if he was handsome and talented..sex is just sex and the person you have it with is irrelevant. So long as they dont break a commitment.

Would any of you feel jealous if he was to cheat ?

Thenewdoctor · 18/10/2018 18:17

Lornar.

How many fucking times.

Who he had sex with before me is irrelevant.

I would only care if he had either a physical or emotional relationship with someone else after the point at which we became exclusive.

SilentIsla · 18/10/2018 18:18

JacquesHammer

As an aside Lorna, you’ve been really useful over the last couple of days, I’ve got a couple of blog posts for a client out of you.

Wow. Unbelievable.

A client? Are you a counsellor?

RebelWitchFace · 18/10/2018 18:18

@lornar123 you still can't differentiate between a relationship and a FWB arrangement?

SilentIsla · 18/10/2018 18:19

How old are you, Ms Hammer? I imagine you are in your mid 50s.

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:19

Jacques situation is confusing to me because it claims to be both passionate and dispassionate simultaneously.

Thenewdoctor · 18/10/2018 18:20

It can be. Sex is many things. Often at the same time.

Schrodinger’s sex. 😀

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:20

ftfoawygtfosm

I asked would you feel jealous ?

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 18:21

A client? Are you a counsellor

Lol no, for this client in particular I write monthly fiction for their website. I’m a freelancer, I have a number of different clients.

How old are you, Ms Hammer? I imagine you are in your mid 50s

You’re 20 years too old.

Thenewdoctor · 18/10/2018 18:22

If he cheated? No I wouldn’t be jealous.

If by cheated you mean had sex with someone else after we had agreed monogamy.

We would be finished but I wouldn’t be jealous.

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 18:23

Jacques situation is confusing to me because it claims to be both passionate and dispassionate simultaneously

No it doesn’t. HTH.

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:24

Maybe a weakness of mine, I would feel jealous I think that for me is the hurt.

Thenewdoctor · 18/10/2018 18:26

What is there to be jealous of?

I genuinely don’t get that?

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:26

Not really Jacques. Amazing sex without passion ? Passion without caring if ever see him again?

SilentIsla · 18/10/2018 18:26

Those people who claim to want to have “handsome” men in the FWB category, must have precious little idea of what real attraction is.

Someone can be textbook “handsome” but not attractive to you. Of course, finding that out takes time usually, time which the FWB brigade do not use in a normal way.

A man may be unconventional in the looks department but his sheer intellect or his sense of humour or his force of personality and confidence make him amazing. And devastatingly sexually attractive.

RebelWitchFace · 18/10/2018 18:26

@JacquesHammer stop mentioning clients or two pages later you'll end up having a pimp on top of a boyfriend.

Errr...wait..that cane out wrong.

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:27

Jealous of the fact he would choose to have sex with someone other than you of course.

Thenewdoctor · 18/10/2018 18:27

You don’t understand the nuanced meaning of dispassionate.

SilentIsla · 18/10/2018 18:28

Really, Ms Hammer? You come across as being quite experienced in life and a bit world weary.

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 18:29

Those people who claim to want to have “handsome” men in the FWB category, must have precious little idea of what real attraction is

Yeah that was Lornar123 who suggested they needed to be handsome...

stop mentioning clients or two pages later you'll end up having a pimp on top of a boyfriend

Grin

Not really Jacques. Amazing sex without passion ? Passion without caring if ever see him again

We have passionate sex. That doesn’t equate to depth of feeling. You’d think you’d have grasped that by now.

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 18:30

Really, Ms Hammer? You come across as being quite experienced in life and a bit world weary

Define “experienced in life”? I’ve done a couple of jobs, divorced, kid, run my own business so yeah maybe.

World weary? Definitely not. I’m presuming you mean the lack of desire for a relationship? That’s very much a positive decision not a negative Smile

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:31

Well fucking add it to the list !

Fifithefoof · 18/10/2018 18:32

@JacquesHammer I think you've just been called a bitter, old, slut. 😂

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lornar123 · 18/10/2018 18:32

Hot but cold. A contradiction.

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