In thinking having more than 5 sexual partners doesn't make you a raging whore bag?

[fifithefoof]

Following on from the last thread .....

Who said that?

Hot but cold. A contradiction

No. Because it’s two separate entities.

What the fuck are you actually talking about now Lornar?



It still baffles me as to how one can be totally unphased if this guy turns round tomorrow and says actually this sex has been pretty shit for me and I found someone who I am really into you would not care a jot. Maybe it's me who is odd but it speaks to either an arrogance or coldness I cannot relate to.

Mr FWB is hot, but Jaques is cold... no wonder the sex is steamy.

It still baffles me as to how one can be totally unphased if this guy turns round tomorrow and says actually this sex has been pretty shit for me and I found someone who I am really into you would not care a jot. Maybe it's me who is odd but it speaks to either an arrogance or coldness I cannot relate to

We know the sex isn’t shit otherwise we would have stopped it when it was. If he meets someone else that’s fine, good luck to him. That’s the whole point of the arrangement.

It absolutely isn’t for everyone. I agree a lot of people would struggle. But for certain people it works perfectly.

sex has been pretty shit for me and I found someone who I am really into you

The two are not linked.

Mr FWB is hot, but Jaques is cold... no wonder the sex is steamy

lornar123

Most people would be hurt and upset that their partner wanted to have sex with someone else... those are the primary emotions I feel, not disappointment that he broke some unspoken promise.

Count me out of your most people.

lornar

It still baffles me as to how one can be totally unphased if this guy turns round tomorrow and says actually this sex has been pretty shit for me and I found someone who I am really into you would not care a jot.

I don’t actually believe they would be cool about that at all. No way! It would hurt like hell.

He could feel that simply the sex is better than nothing. Many men feel this way.

Lots of the FWB brigade are being disingenuous.

It would hurt like hell

It might hurt you like hell. I know it’s absolutely going to stop at some point. It’s far more likely he will end it that me for a relationship.

It’s all good. There’s no negatives here.

He could feel that simply the sex is better than nothing. Many men feel this way

Absolutely he could. But given I’m getting my rocks off, I don’t care.

But if he wasn’t happy with the sex or the FWB they’d only have had sex up until the pot he wasn’t happy with it.

Unless she has him chained to the bed ...

Oh great another what doesn't care if her partner prefers other women to them...

Lots of the FWB brigade are being disingenuous

Another healthy dose of arrogance

Most women would struggle. Not merely a lot, Ms Hammer.

Lots of the FWB brigade are being disingenuous

I'd rather be disingenuous than a massive, judgey twat.....

Oh great another what doesn't care if her partner prefers other women to them..

Who are you talking about? I don’t have a partner.

Most women would struggle. Not merely a lot, Ms Hammer

Sniggering, why the “Ms Hammer”. Does it make you feel clever?

So most: you do know by its very definition that’s not all.

Women are much more emotional. I reckon they DO get emotionally involved. And then if the guy ditches them - ow, it really must hurt. Why on earth would some of you set yourselves up for this possibility/ probability? Weird.

Must be great to be untroubled by such base emotions as envy jealousy. Unburdened by any ego or desire to be wanted, unphased to be wanted less than another etc.