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In thinking having more than 5 sexual partners doesn't make you a raging whore bag?

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fifithefoof · 14/10/2018 00:43

Following on from the last thread .....

OP posts:
lornar123 · 17/10/2018 23:19

Au contraire Jacques. Let's hope mr hot big dick doesn't go anywhere eh ? But what would you care ?

DioneTheDiabolist · 17/10/2018 23:22

I agree PreseaCombatir.

JacquesHammer · 17/10/2018 23:23

Let's hope mr hot big dick doesn't go anywhere

He can if he wants. As can I. That’s the deal. Out of the two of us I imagine if anyone called it off it would be him. I have no idea whether he wants a relationship or not, but as I don’t I assume that’s where it will happen.

But what would you care?

I wouldn’t. See, you’re finally starting to grasp the situation.

JacquesHammer · 17/10/2018 23:25

Totally intending to call him that next time for the laughs though Grin

lornar123 · 17/10/2018 23:58

Jacques you intend to call him because he's your boyfriend..shees

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 00:23

The man and his his penis, Which are separate.

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 00:35

I'm your boyfriend lorna let's fuck once a fortnight. Passion not

fifithefoof · 18/10/2018 02:29

I think @lornar123 done lost her mind.

Can you not see exactly how fucking RUDE you are being to people that have tried to politely engage and be sympathetic for a week now?!

OP posts:
needsomehelpwiththisone · 18/10/2018 06:08

No judgement from me, but I genuinely don't understand why anyone would want or need to do this, or why anyone would want or need to have sex with random people when they're not in relationships with them. It's just bizarre.

M0gg · 18/10/2018 07:14

@needsomehelpwiththisone your post sounds suspiciously like the opposite of 'no judgement'. A bit like 'I'm not racist but....'

Lornar is probably the most bizarre poster I've ever come across. I wouldn't be engaging with her any further.

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 07:23

No judgement from me, but I genuinely don't understand why anyone would want or need to do this, or why anyone would want or need to have sex with random people when they're not in relationships with them. It's just bizarre

“No judgement but” is the absolute opposite of no judgement!

If you read the thread though it’s explained quite clearly.

CantankerousCamel · 18/10/2018 07:37

PEople have sex with multiple people because sex is fun and people are interesting. It’s a really nice way to get to know someone.

But I don’t get the best sex chat. The best sex is pretty vanilla for me but contains a lot of love and the right time of the month!!

I can say that ONSXX was a better lover than my DH (but he’d clearly have lots of practise) but my best times have definitely been with DH.

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 08:41

I mean, do you kiss him ? Like do you snog passionately ? Is the anything you only do with someone you "love" or is it all the same ?

CantankerousCamel · 18/10/2018 08:48

Lorna, have you never had a passionate kiss with someone you’re not in love with?

DioneTheDiabolist · 18/10/2018 08:53

lornar, you unable or unwilling to understand what people are kindly and patiently telling you.

Why do you think that is?

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 08:55

I await the answer Dionne thanks for the snidey remarks tho. Anything ? All the same ?

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 08:56

Cantankerous maybe once but I wouldn't regularly (4 years) be snogging the face of someone I wasn't in love with. Call me odd if you like.

CantankerousCamel · 18/10/2018 09:00

I don’t think you’re odd, I think that you are just for some reason telling someone that how you feel Has to be how they feel. Which isn’t true.

I find snogging really invasive. I have had to politely ask my husband not to stick his tongue in my mouth because I simply find it hideous. We are totally besotted with each other and I could not imagine being with anyone else, he is my everything but ‘passionate snogging’ is just not something we do.

It’s no indicator of love or lack of

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 09:03

Kissing is actually a good example. Why would you not like it if you OH kissed someone else ? What does the kissing signify ? What would sex signify ? This is why people are monogamous generally because for most people it signifies something.

Apparently I've lost my mind by thinking these things tho.

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 09:05

Cantankerous so is there you only do with someone you love ? Or is it all the same to you ?

CantankerousCamel · 18/10/2018 09:11

Lorna that’s not really a sentence, could you try again?

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 09:12

Call me odd if you like

I don’t think you’re odd for your feeling surrounding sex. I think you’re obsession with telling everyone else they’re wrong is odd.

But yeah we kiss as part of sex. And no, as with sex I don’t find kissing as part of sex defines any more meaning, it is all part of the sex act.

JacquesHammer · 18/10/2018 09:17

Just a tip though, if you report last night’s drunken ramblings Lorna, MN should delete them for you.

DioneTheDiabolist · 18/10/2018 09:37

You get answers, you refuse to accept them or twist them into something they're not. You are making less sense with every post.

Do you struggle to understand that people are different to you in real life as well?

lornar123 · 18/10/2018 09:39

So is there anything you only do with people you love, or is it all the same. Does that seem like a sensible question to you ? You understand it enough to know that you wouldn't want your partner kissing someone because that signifies something, but at the same time you think it means nothing. You see why people would be confused ? Or is it all alien to you ?

Happy to leave my drunken ramblings up as long as they ndidnt offend anyone bSmile

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