In thinking having more than 5 sexual partners doesn't make you a raging whore bag?

[fifithefoof]

Following on from the last thread .....

Why do you judge thisneverendingsummer? What benefit does it bring you?

I love that we're all 'liars' with 'no heart' and 'no soul' now. Blimey, we're quite the Antichrist!

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I just love that DS friend who is built like a tank was described as a butterfly. He’s going to laugh his leg off when I tell him.

To be fair, people are saying that they're husbands would be unflustered at being told Phil from accounts was a better ride than them.

Who said that lornar?

No they aren’t.

My partner told me that the best sex he ever had was ... and described the situation.

I told him that the best sex I ever had was with an ex who it didn’t last with - the relarionship in the round wasn’t good but the sex was great.

He knows the sex with him is fabulous and I’m pleased with what I’m getting and surely that is all that matters?

Lornar123 keeps making these comments and yet is always unable to copy the posts she’s referring to.

Yawn

Wait until they see the one night stand thread! There's 100s of us vile harlots on here.

I’ve never had a ONS. I’m a second rate harlot.

Ah the tiresome sockpuppet argument. Come on, you were all saying that your partners would not be jealous or upset you having had better sex with an ex. Phil from accounts is just a name for that ex. Are you now saying they would be bothered ?

Especially those who consider themselves irresistible and brag about the number of men who want to shag them.
YY sexually available isn't the same as sexually attractive

My partner isn’t upset nor am I.

What don't you get about being self assured enough and having enough self esteem to NOT CARE?!

Life is long. Many, many things will happen to you. You let everything tie you up in knots, make you judge everything like it's a competition and feel so much jealously you are in for a rough ride.

Possibly, some really fucking awful stuff might happen to you and put the little stuff in to perspective. There's enough shit in life to get upset about, you don't need to invent extra.

OH isn't bothered because 1. It was so long ago and 2. The best sex ever was in the worst relationship ever.

Tbh sex and sexual preferences are dynamic anyways they change ,as do circumstances and even chemistry. I can't think of many people from my past with whom I'd have sex again if I were single,no matter how good the sex was. Because I'm not the same person anymore and I want/like different things now.

The best sex I've had, not that I'd discuss it with Dh because it was a painful time, was also with my worst relationship.

Are you now saying they would be bothered

No. We’re saying you’re deliberately misunderstanding and not doing anything to disabuse us of that fact.

All I care about is that the sex I am getting now is good. And it is. Whether I had better or worse sex in the past is irrelevant and not even worth thinking about.

Well we'll have to disagree. I'm 28, the idea I could be about to get married and my soon to be husband was overheard saying e.g. "oh no Sheila was a better shag, but overall I prefer Lorna." Like I could just brush that off - there would be no wedding.

To be fair maybe when I am older I will feel differently but I still feel quite young and exciting.

To be fair maybe when I am older I will feel differently but I still feel quite young and exciting

How old do you think we are?!

the idea I could be about to get married and my soon to be husband was overheard saying e.g. "oh no Sheila was a better shag, but overall I prefer Lorna." Like I could just brush that off - there would be no wedding

Despite being REPEATEDLY told this isn’t what we’re discussing you seem utterly obsessed. Is there a reason you’re not willing to engage with other points? All rather much of a me-rail isn’t it?

Who has actually ever said their partner said anything like that?

Are you being deliberately obtuse to goad?

My partner told me that the best sex he ever had was ... and described the situation.

I told him that the best sex I ever had was with an ex who it didn’t last with - the relarionship in the round wasn’t good but the sex was great.

You all also agreed that it wouldn't bother you so why you are now claiming this is a misrepresentation having spent days telling me just this is beyond me now.

You all also agreed that it wouldn't bother you so why you are now claiming this is a misrepresentation having spent days telling me just this is beyond me now

Do you understand the subtleties and nuance of conversation. Do you really continue to assert there’s no difference between the two examples you quoted and “Phil is a better fuck than you”?

Just FYI, I’m only a few years older than you. Maybe zen is closer than you think