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To think the tide is turning with transgenderism

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abacucat · 11/10/2018 10:05

There have been a flood of articles in mainstream newspapers criticising transgenderism and putting forward the feminist perspective. It is not long ago that no mainstream newspaper would carry these articles. The tide seems to be turning.

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PlantsArePeopleToo · 11/10/2018 15:47

Do they really Verbeena? Because I am yet to see anyone actually provide evidence of these so called transphobic posts when people ask for them. They either run away or dance around the question. Pretty much like what you're doing.

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 15:50

Ooh ooh, just noticed a we see you. Can tick that off too.

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 15:51

Ever thought why people don't answer? Maybe they've given up fucking trying like I have as there's no point when nobody can see.

kesstrel · 11/10/2018 15:52

The "point and screech" style of argument.

kesstrel · 11/10/2018 15:53

Plants I'd disengage. They're just trying to derail the thread: they don't have any actual arguments.

StormTreader · 11/10/2018 15:54

There's been a "we see you", a "bro" and a "handmaiden", its been a veritable FWR bingo session. Plus the obligatory "one poster furiously posting 'no it isn't, show me, prove it!' over and over." We got the whole experience, don't forget to check the gift shop!

PlantsArePeopleToo · 11/10/2018 15:55

That makes no sense Verbeena because nobody has ever shown us any transphobic post when asked.

In the time you've spent arguing with me you could have easily directed me to a transphobic post on this thread.

mostdays · 11/10/2018 15:56

For one thing, please don't attempt to claim feminism solely for the gender critical- there are many, many feminists who are not gender critical.

It would be nice if people could refrain from calling those women who disagree with them on these issues 'handmaidens'. What you hope to achieve by offending and belittling other women I don't know.

Young people are overwhelmingly trans positive. They see your position in the way that my generation sees that of those who supported section 28. There's no need to shout at me about how the gender critical approach to trans issues is nothing like section 28 and you're not transphobic so you can't be the same as the homophobic, btw- I've not said you're homophobic and I haven't drawn any parallels between your position and that of the section 28 lot; I'm just pointing out the similarities in how you're viewed by the young.

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 15:57

Anyone not following the script, must be derailing. Usual, usual. Blame the awful deleted apparently sarcastic comment for getting it off track. Are we all just supposed to ignore it and let awful comments stand? Thought you wanted them pulling up and pointing out?

PlantsArePeopleToo · 11/10/2018 15:57

So are you going to show us the transphobic posts or not?

If you think someone is being transphobic it is far better to show them how what they're saying is transphobic so they can learn from it.

CaligulaBlushed · 11/10/2018 15:57

Ooo a "there's no transphobia on mumsnet" post, BINGO!!

Seriously, there can't be any left to get now can there?

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 15:57

Well said, mostdays.

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 15:59

We've had handmaiden, there's no transphobia, we see you, think I've seen a TRA thrown in too somewhere? Still waiting on MRA and a sealion

PlantsArePeopleToo · 11/10/2018 15:59

But if there is so much transphobia Caligula then why can nobody ever show us any?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 11/10/2018 15:59

MNHQ delete transphobic posts

As has been shown on this thread

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 11/10/2018 16:00

Cant be arsed to read back

Who said there are no transphobic posts on mumsnet?

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 16:00

Plants - done that one, given up trying. They'll swear blind they've never said anything transphobic, usually after literally saying something extremely transphobic. Confused

PlantsArePeopleToo · 11/10/2018 16:01

I have also never claimed there is no transphobia. Of course there is. However any transphobia is immediately called up on, reported and deleted.

There was a very questionable trans thread the other day that I felt went a bit too far and MNHQ agreed and the thread was zapped.

ChampagneCommunist · 11/10/2018 16:01

Wikipedia's list of transgender murder victims seems to show 4 in the UK since the 1980's with one of those being murdered by a person who was also transgender.

As of 2016 there were 70 transgender inmates (Govt figures) and one of them (Ian Huntley) had murdered two people.

If there are just 2 more convicted transgender murderers, then we have evidence that there are more Trans murderers than Trans murder victims.

And that seems likely to me.

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 16:02

Plants - as I said, this one isn't "as" bad as it's outside of the echo chamber. Go have a look in the other board, you'll find plenty. Assuming you know what you're looking for in the first place, that is.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 11/10/2018 16:05

If someone says something extremely transphobic it really should be reported so it can be deleted

If transphobic posts are left standing then they shoukd be pointed out to other posters so they can be deleted

Ive asked on a few threads for transphobic posts ive missed and ive been happy to report them when they have been pointed out to me

Ive also reported a number of very transphobic posts made by people who say they are extremely pro trans...they are either liars or very very stupid

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 11/10/2018 16:06

Does anyone have any ideas for breakfast recipes?

For the past two days colleagues have been eating EggMcMuffins and some sort of English muffin / egg / cheese sandwich from Eat. I need to up my breakfast game.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 11/10/2018 16:06

Go have a look in the other board, you'll find plenty

Why on earth aren't you reporting them yourself verbeena?

CaligulaBlushed · 11/10/2018 16:08

Plants I've seen posters give link after link! I remember the threads about the Canadian shooter being trans, the one about stopping being an organ donor in case one of your organs went to someone trans, thread after thread about Lily Madigan and speculating as to her mental health issues, a picture of a mutilated arm captioned "phalloplasty" - and believe me, this was not a phalloplasty arm (but they can look gruesome, this was exposed bones - and MNHQ let that one stand!

Daily there are posts conflating trans people with murderers and sex offenders. Posts calling them (all) narcissists, deluded, brainwashed or cult-like. Yesterday someone told me that schoolboys would be identifying as girls in order to get girls alone in the changing rooms - these are children! But, you know, trans children are devious, predators.

Put all of that together and what have you got?

VerbeenaBeeks · 11/10/2018 16:08

I do if I see any Smile