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To think that if Girl Guides is for girls, it should allow all girls to be members?

636 replies

OrchidInTheSun · 27/09/2018 06:45

Girl guides have confirmed that if a girl identifies as a boy, they'll kick them out.

So they are no longer a single sex organisation, they are a single gender one.

Mad

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/ban-for-girl-guides-who-identify-as-boys-dlj8mjk23

OP posts:
joystir59 · 27/09/2018 15:38

they are clearly now a mixed sex organisation as they are letting boys join. I am sick of the ignorance regarding the difference between sex and gender.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 27/09/2018 15:40

You have been very patient and well mannered swiss

Swissgemma · 27/09/2018 15:42

Again the issue is cross arguing.

I understand your position. If you are biologically female you are woman/female.

I do not believe that. I believe you can be biologically female and choose to be gendered male.

You can, in my opinion a biologically male woman.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 27/09/2018 15:42

I defend everyone’s right to a belief whether that be religion or gender driven To be clear, you did mention the two in the same sentence

I don’t think it is linked to biology whilstreligion may not be gender is linked to biology - it is the stereotypical understanding of how each of the sexes is/is allowed or expected to be! Society has quite strong ideas on how men and women can and should behave! If it didn't then being trans would ever have been an issue for anyone!

I shall not be swayed. But that does not invite the debate you say you are here for!

Swissgemma · 27/09/2018 15:43

Hmmm rufus. No idea if that is sarcastic or not. But I’ll take the pat on the head.

vdanci31 · 27/09/2018 15:44

So, this is how it goes?
There are boys who don't want willies and girls who want willies. A lot of the girls who don't want willies don't want boys who don't want willies in their group because they do have willies. The boys who don't want willies want to be with all girls, regardless of whether the latter want willes or not.
The girls who want willies want to be with the boys who have willies, but some of the boys with willies don't want williless girls in their group.
Has anyone read Seuss "The Sneetches"?
And to think, there are people starving in the world...

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 27/09/2018 15:44

It wasnt a pat on the head or sarcastic if that helps

CuriousaboutSamphire · 27/09/2018 15:44

You can, in my opinion a biologically male woman And that is where we will have to leave it.

To me your opinion is, erm, batshit, fruit loopy.

Just as I assume my opinion is, to you, stultified, regressive and nasty!

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 27/09/2018 15:44

I live the sneetches

They had stars upon thars

Fact...

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 27/09/2018 15:45

Live????

Love!!!!!

Fucking hell!!!

CuriousaboutSamphire · 27/09/2018 15:46

I like it better the first way Grin

stillHereStill · 27/09/2018 15:47

They seem to be a single gender organisation and I admire them following through with their beliefs.

As always, it's the apparently liberal left who don't actually like the idea of free speech. hashtag politics.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 27/09/2018 15:49

curious

Grin
FinnegansWhiskers · 27/09/2018 15:50

Just found this...

Interesting.....
In a nutshell basically.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 27/09/2018 15:50

Sex.... sex is the protected characteristic that has been steamrollered!

Gender, as a standalone term, is not a protected characteristic, no matter how often Stonewall and Mermaids etc say it is!

Swissgemma · 27/09/2018 15:51

Curious I mentioned the two I’m the same sentence as a response to being told if I was pro one I was against the other.

I will not be swayed by simply being told I am wrong and being expected to solve every issue by myself. I may be swayed by debate (although I suspect I will always maintain my live and let live start
Point so can’t realistically be swayed that far).

I am a feminist and believe women have and continue to be given a raw deal. I agree that there are social stereotypes and that these should be challenged both in terms of male and female traits - it is bullshit.

However, I don’t believe fighting the trans community as a whole is the best way of going about things.

I do believe that gender is idiosyncratic and so if John wants to be forever more known as Joanne I will accept her as a woman and an equal. Not as an other. If Joanne starts acting like a prima Donna I’ll tell her to back it up in the same way I would a biological woman or a man throwing around privilege.

Swissgemma · 27/09/2018 15:54

Rufus: In which case I suspect the correct response is thankyou.

Swissgemma · 27/09/2018 15:56

Take the whole post curious.

I believe you can be biologically male and gendered female.

We don’t have an agreed position on gender.

That’s the disagreement.

Swissgemma · 27/09/2018 15:59

I don’t think your opinion is nasty or regressive curious. I honestly think we are not that far apart.

As you identified the issue is definitions.

blueskiesandforests · 27/09/2018 16:02

Ryan is used as a name for natal females in the USA anyway... Changing your forename and others using the new name doesn't mean they think anything else except your forename has changed...

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 27/09/2018 16:02

swiss

You are very welcome

WomanAKAAdultHumanFemale · 27/09/2018 16:04

Ryan is a boy's name, too. Have you ever heard of the actor Ryan O'Neal?

blueskiesandforests · 27/09/2018 16:06

Woman it's a boys name with a masculine meaning but gets used for girls sometimes in the USA. It doesn't say "I'm a man" trys not to channel Bros the 80s boy band so much as "my parents were trying to be edgey when they named their daughter"

blueskiesandforests · 27/09/2018 16:07

^ if someone who is patently a woman uses it as her name

Elephantinacravat · 27/09/2018 16:07

I believe you can be biologically male and gendered female.

But being 'gendered female' (whatever that means) doesn't make you a woman if you are a man, and so women's sex based rights should not be changed.

You can believe what you want, it doesn't make it true.

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