surferjet your comment wasn't (I don't think) directed at me but if it were I would hold up my hands. I have been on MN FAR too much over the last three days, to the detriment of my kids and my sanity quite frankly. So I'm off shortly, but I want to explain why I haven't been able to leave it.
These paid trolls are real. I'm not suggesting you are one. But you can SEE their behaviour and they are paid to influence public thought. I don't know where they come from or who pays them but it is true that Russia for example invests loads of money in this kind of subtle mind-control. I truly believe it was these people who won the referendum by coming on popular forums like this one, unchallenged, and expertly influencing people's opinions.
I would be sad about the referendum result if it were not a result of lying and scheming and foreign interference, I can admit that, but I would genuinely suck it up if I thought it were a fair and true representation of what people wanted - and they had been properly informed.
But we know that it wasn't. Was it?
And now I can see this particular OP, having learned from the fact she/he was called out early on because her posting pattern was classic paid troll. They are posting in a non-commital, faux personal way all over the boards to give themselves credence. But they did not do this before the summit last week when they were invented, fully formed. So in a way they are best off ignored. but I just. cannot. Do it.