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to think this is a bizarre thing to do when naming twins.

441 replies

HugANetmum · 31/08/2018 13:32

NCed for this. I work in a school. we have twins coming.

TWIN1 is called: Roseanne
TWIN2 is called: Rosy

No lies.

why would you do that? Confused

OP posts:
cakesandphotos · 31/08/2018 17:17

My friend knew identical twin girls called Dolce and Gabanna

AntsDeck · 31/08/2018 17:34

I know a set of twins called Emma and Dale! Grin

SLL · 31/08/2018 17:39

I used to know twins girls called Melanie and Lemanie. Felt so sorry for Lemanie...

Parisbun · 31/08/2018 17:40

I dont know why PPs are saying how unprofessional you are OP since names are not exactly a secret .
Most schools have loads of staff who have access to names so unclear how it can be identifying.

Anyway. My favourite is a family I work with who have Dcs with names that start exactly the same - Diamonte, Diamonshay,Diamoneque . There are a couple more but I cant recall how to spell them. I often wonder how their names are shortened.

lalalalyra · 31/08/2018 17:41

Not quite the same, but my DS1 and his DW have the male and female form of the same name

My BIL and his GF are Lee and Leigh. They are very unimpressed by the jokey suggestions that their unborn child should be Leah or Leo as apparently it's a pain enough with the post already Grin

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 31/08/2018 17:47

YANBU. What a fucking daft thing to do.
Can they not see any further than names descending from Rose.
Also it robs Rosanne her rights to use the nn Rosy, if she wanted to.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 31/08/2018 17:49

I know a Jodie and Joe Sibset.
I've always that was a bit peculiar.

LokiBear · 31/08/2018 17:53

I know a Daniel and Danielle.

TheLastSaola · 31/08/2018 17:53

I went to school with the first IVF triplets born in the UK.

Khalil
Khalid
And Khalifa

QueJamones · 31/08/2018 17:55

There were a set of twins briefly at my dc's school who were not at all matchy matchy... no, these twin girls were Megan and Goodison.... I think if I were Goodison I would always wonder why... can't think of any good (hah) shortenings of Goodison.

Furrydogmum · 31/08/2018 17:56

I know of a pair of toddlers called Ronnie and Reggie..😮

alifromtheforest · 31/08/2018 18:00

Ex MIL was named Bernadette because her mum really loved the name Bernard but had a girl.

Two years later, had a boy. Called him Bernard.

AamdC · 31/08/2018 18:04

I used to know a married couple called Bernard and Bernadette , and i used to share a house with a Sharron whose brother was called DarrenGrin

Touchnotthiscat · 31/08/2018 18:05

I know of a Caneeza and Caneil... I was really hoping they'd have another and call it 'C'in'ell

Touchnotthiscat · 31/08/2018 18:06

Also taught a Trinity who has a brother named Neo!

willowsmumsy · 31/08/2018 18:07

I've heard of a family with 2 girls- Shardonnay and Shablis
(Yes they are spelt that way- I know it's incorrect)

MissLingoss · 31/08/2018 18:08

I wouldn't give siblings the same first initial, especially same sex siblings. It caused enough confusion when people assumed my sister spelled her name with a letter that was also the first letter of my name, even when she'd told them otherwise. Say for example I was Caroline and she was Katherine. I'd assume letters addressed to Miss C Lingoss were for me, and open them, but sometimes they were for her.

Belmo · 31/08/2018 18:08

There’s a Layla and Lola at dd’s gymnastics.

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 31/08/2018 18:09

The Radfords have a Millie, Tillie, Ellie and Hallie. That is just mind boggling.

TheMadGardener · 31/08/2018 18:10

Some siblings I have encountered while teaching...

Sharif and Sharifa (twins)
Julian and Juliana
Sam 'n' Ella, the food poisoning twins
Elon, Elin and Elan
Six siblings who all began with R.
Eight siblings with names with the alternating initials S or J - so their names started S, then J, S, J, S, J, S and J.

PurpleTigerLove · 31/08/2018 18:10

My dad has sibling cousins called Frances and William , they get called Fanny and Willy .
I know someone who’s grandparents were called Mary and Joseph.
My niece and nephew ( different sibling ) are called Sam and Ella . I also know a Jack , Mum is called Jill .

ladyloopy · 31/08/2018 18:11

I heard of twins that were called Requiem and Regatta. I fucking shit you not.

spanieleyes · 31/08/2018 18:12

I also know a Jaimie ( girl) whose boyfriend is Jamie!

Graphista · 31/08/2018 18:14

Lynne/lynette slater same person in eastenders - she started off lynette, then it become Lynne and retconned that she was never lynette.

However there's also Belinda slater which is also very similar.

I knew twins b/g - b Alexander g sasha 😕

Also sisters Marie and marina

George Foreman named several of his sons George.

"I don't get how jacob and James are the same name??" Basically Jacob is the original Jewish version so james is sort of a nickname/anglicisation? Jacobean era - era of James vi's rule, Jacobites - supporters of James vii and his descendants and their claim to the thrones of Great Britain and Ireland.

Reminds me I once knew a Jack Johns.

Dad once had a boss - Richard Dickinson.

"Went to school with the female twin, Oscarina. It was shortened to Oscie. Her twin was Oscar." In Scotland? There's a tradition (I think mainly highlands) here of naming first born child if a daughter after the father but feminising by adding -ina. So thomasina, Benjamina, adamina, Jamina... I almost did that for dd but exh didn't like it.

Also in Scotland you of course have Mac/mc so Gregor MacGregor, Craig McCraig etc

And then Catholics doing the saints name, sometimes you get lucky...sometimes not so much if your born on a day where there's not many saints assigned that day and what there is are bizarre or there's only a male or female saint 'available'

This is all making me think of 2 Michael McIntyre routines:

m.youtube.com/watch?v=o4_YL9QotBM

This one IS MY LIFE I have spent my WHOLE BLOODY LIFE spelling all my names because my parents gave me

A forename that is pronounced differently in Scotland than England, as I am a Scot, the scots pronunciation is really the correct one - FAR too many English people have tried over the years (especially teachers 😡) to tell me I am pronouncing MY OWN NAME wrong - err no!

A middle name saints name that NOBODY has ever heard of!

A surname (admittedly this was not truly choice of course) that can be spelt 3 different ways, and also isn't very common/well known, so again weird pronunciations.

I then married a man who's name I took thinking I wouldn't have to spell it - except I do because there's 2 spellings of it too!

But I can't complain to dd as we gave her 4 names (long story family issues) all of which can be spelt in at least 2 different ways. (And 4 names plus their length means form filling is somewhat tricky!)

Normal people can set up email addresses confident in the knowledge that when they have to give them out...its relatively simple... Not for us! In addition my married name is also the name of someone famous in parts of the world (but with the English pronunciation) . I have one email address that is just initials and surname which I use 'professionally', but the one I use more regularly is a daft made up one but which is easy to give out (and gives people a chuckle). NIGHTMARE!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=d6r6nhBcIbA

I grew up not knowing ANY of my aunts, uncles, parents or grandparents 'proper' names until I was fairly old relatively speaking because they ALL go by either derivative nicknames of their true forename (of the already mentioned James/Jacob type) or by their middle names (preferring them to their forenames) by characteristic based nicknames (eg "lofty", "tiny", "rusty" - bloody confusing! - one gets called a characteristic nickname NOT because they have the characteristic but because in other ways they are very like a relative who did! Far too outing to say what but think blonde person nicknamed "rusty" - utterly bizarre!

Mind you I'm to blame for one - I couldn't pronounce my brothers name as a child so he's ended up stuck with just the last syllable as a nickname within the family!

"I know an Ian John. It's basically the same name twice. Just why." Tautology. Most commonly seen in place names eg Lake Tahoe, river Avon, easy Timor...

LakieLady · 31/08/2018 18:15

And speaking of Liverpudlians, I don't understand the Rooney's baby naming logic. Kai, Klay, Kit & Cass?!

Aha, so now I know why the name Kai has suddenly become popular!

I'd only come across the name for people with a German parent until recently. I was at school with a German boy called Kai and my mum used to insist it was short for Kaiser. Grin Then I knew 2 people with a son called Kai, both of them married to German people.