IrishDadof2 might be a wind up merchant, but the thing is, he is saying what plenty are thinking.
So, IrishDadof2 you don't find transwomen attractive because they look like men, to paraphrase. If a transwoman were so feminine that she passed, that no one would know she were trans unless they saw her naked, would you find her attractive? Or is it simply the knowledge that she is male that turns you off?
"The sooner you get on board....." Oh dear. You seem to be a man telling women what to think. Well that can only end well.
About your daughter: when she is passed over for promotion because a transwoman isn't going to do something inconvenient like go on maternity leave, when she can't possibly win a race against her male-bodied competitors, when she doesn't get a place on a female shortlist because it's taken by a transwoman who has never been held back professionally due to be being a man for most of their life, when she can't request a female nurse to do her smear test because that's transphobic and she has to have a non-passing transwoman do it, when she feels physically threatened by a much larger, stronger person with a penis threatening her, will you tell her "I understand your fears around something you don't understand, but this is real and it's happening. The sooner you get on board the easier it will be for everyone?"
How do you expect her to respond?
And by the way, you do NOT understand women full stop. You don't understand what we fear, what we face, or what we've seen and experienced. It's laughable that you are telling women they don't understand, when you are refusing to even accept what you are being told by women.
If my son came to me and said he was trans, there would be a lot of discussion. And I would tell him he is perfect as he is, and if he choses to wear make up and frilly skirts, it's fine by me. And if he wanted to transition, as an adult, it would be with my full support. If he claimed he was female, his brain was female, that he deserved to be on the female only shortlists and any woman who feared him because he was trans was a violent terf, he and I would be Having Words. And I would consider that I had failed as a parent if my child didn't understand why women have reasons to fear men.
It's the acts of a minority of violent abusive scum-sucking men, that have caused most women to be wary of ALL men - do you understand why that is? Have you been told why, and actually listened, or did you work that one out for yourself? Because from your posts, it really does seem as if you don't know why we are cautious around men and transwomen, and why we fear for our safety, and our rights, and those of our children.