I am an oldie now,,but years ago.many years ago, I was a SAHM,with two children, husband with good job,me at home doing everything, which I liked,. So in the evening,when my husband came home, he had nothing to do,but chill out, But I used to get changed into something nice ish, put my lipstick on,and serve up our family meal, then two hours later, when the children went to bed, my then husband sat in the sofa, read the paper for a while, and fell asleep every night at about 9pm.
This sounds like something out of the 1950s Good Wife's Guide textbook
http://www.feministezine.com/feminist/historical/Good-Wifes-Guide.html
2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.
I actually agree that if you have to take your bra off, you're not wearing the right size.
I don't have to take my bra off, but it's surely not beyond the wit of (wo)man that wearing no bra is more comfortable than even the most well fitting bra, surely?
Seems like for many people PJs are shorthand for lounge wear rather than the clothes you actually sleep in? That makes more sense!
On MN where it's supposedly grim to change your sheets any less than every other day and wash your towels once an hour, and a toilet brush is a hanging offence, but showering twice a day is a criminal waste of water - it seemed a bit puzzling that so many people would get into PJs straight from work and cook / eat dinner, do stuff around the house etc, then get into bed wearing the same PJs. Though you never know with MN decrees!!