Does anything think this is reasonable?

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Tiny new baby, aww. In the supermarket.
Walking down an aisle.
Boob out completely trying to get the baby to latch.
Wtf.
Does anyone think this is normal? I bf myself for the record.

I don't care about it. It isn't threatening. It doesn't affect me, so I would simply get on with my day.

Totally agree CoolGirlsNeverGetAngry

I don't know what relevance her partner being there really has...he should have breastfed the baby?
She should have stopped shopping (which presumably she needed/wanted to do) and ostrasiced herself to the nearest wee-soaked toilet? I wouldn't want my DH doing the grocery shop by himself. All we'd have is low quality processed meat and beer.

Yes, feeding a baby is normal.

I'm always massively impressed by those who can feed while standing up/walking. I never managed it.

No issue whatsoever. Baby needed fed, so she fed them. What do you want her to do?

A mother feeding a baby? Yes, that's normal, OP.

I keep seeing men walking round the supermarket with full boob and nipple out, now that makes me feel unwell and there's no need. A mum feeding a baby I don't mind!

Whilst true, I think breeding a newborn in public should be discouraged actually.

I just got that.

Go to Central America. Women breastfeed even quite big children (3/4 years old) openly everywhere, buses, benches, parks, restaurants, shops, literally EVERYWHERE and no one gives it a second glance. I wish that was our normal. I wish I had been brave enough to do it.

Babies hungry, feed the baby, don't think it's unreasonable at all.

YABU! If the baby needs feeding then it's natural for her to want to feed him. I have fed my baby at a doctor's appointment, I just whipped out my boob, I didn't even think twice. Tbh I can't believe there are women like you who breastfeed and have a problem with what this woman has done.

Fair play to her, my only concern would be if she tripped over, but I was always scared of walking and carrying a newborn.

@haribosmarties good on you! Totally normal, breastfeeding standing up, upside down, hanging from a lampshade should all be seen as normal!!

I’d think ‘poor woman could probably do with a comfy chair’ but beyond that ...nope...can’t muster a fuck to give about a woman FEEDING her baby. I’ve seen boobs before, they’re handy things for feeding babies, there’s really nothing to get vexed about.

I've never seen a woman breast feeding in public, or noticed at least, so it's not normal.

I think a lot of the general public would be judgy about it.

I think I would be shocked but that's only because we are conditioned go think it's something to be hidden.

Hungry baby needs fed. Totally natural. Wish we saw it more often. Maybe then people wouldn't be so scandalised.

I doubt she was trying to make a statement. Babies need latched on, it's part of the process.

When my dds needed fed I fed them. Wherever we were. I wasn't looking for attention, I was feeding my baby.

Is it "normal"? Probably not. You wouldn't be this outraged/surprised/shocked if it was a common occurrence...

But that doesn't automaticay make it wrong... I personally think it's perfectly fine! Good for her, tbh. It's just a breast... A breast she is using to feed her baby... It seems like a pretty good thing to me. :)

@NotAnotherHeffalump sounds like my OH. I swear we'd all starve to death if I didn't do the shopping!

I’m seriously impressed, latching for me involved lots of contortion, to be able to do it whilst stood up/walking and shopping is some next level multi tasking

Breastfeeding is natural and comparing it to masturbation is weird. Finding a woman breastfeeding shocking says more about you than it does her. Mothers with small babies have a hard enough time without being judged for feeding their children.

Breasts are designed to feed babies.
Why the partner being there is relevant, I haven't a clue.
You are part of the reason why breastfeeding rates are so low in this country OP, and why, 20 odd years ago, I felt compelled to feed my child in a toilet as if it was something dirty to be ashamed of.
I think you need to ask yourself why you see it as so abnormal when it was something that nature intended for those that are able to do it.

I’m seriously impressed, latching for me involved lots of contortion, to be able to do it whilst stood up/walking and shopping is some next level multi tasking

Me too! When dd was a newborn I could only manage to feed sat on a hardback chair with 3 pillows piled up.

No problem is breastfeeding a baby in public, although i’m I pressed if she can do this whilst shopping. I would have had to,sit down somewhere..

However, I admit I would have been slight surprised if her whole boob was exposed/naked.

So I'll really bite now....
I have female children. When they have children (if they want to), I will actively encourage them to do so - judgy people like you need to get over themselves.

Good for her. Baby hungry = feed baby.

Nothing wrong with it. Any mum should be able to bf anywhere.

I bf on an ikea display sofa once. If baby wants feeding, baby should be fed...better than the screams.