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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to wonder why my posts are nearly always ignored on MN?

999 replies

brizzledrizzle · 28/07/2018 09:47

Am I as invisible here as in real life? Grin

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arranfan · 28/07/2018 11:48

SchadenfreudePersonified - I have to confess that I regularly look about to see if Vlad has made any appearances (harking back to the 'patio doors' 'private garden' dodgy neighbours and builders threads).

MissClareRemembers · 28/07/2018 11:53

You watch. I’ll kill this thread now.

I once started a thread that had about 500 posts on it. I felt like a celebrity for a bit but then I got ignored on my own thread. So I just sat and watched the tumbleweed passing by instead.

MissClareRemembers · 28/07/2018 11:58

Knew it.

TooTrueToBeGood · 28/07/2018 12:11

brizzledrizzle - you're a fellow kayaker, iirc?

Ooh! Sea, surf or WW?

TooTrueToBeGood · 28/07/2018 12:11

Knew it.

No you didn't 😁

JohnMcCainsDeathStare · 28/07/2018 12:12

I was the Thread Slayer on Usenet and at University. If I wasn't killing threads I was being invisible. I could spin it and say that it was my wisdom and intellect meant that someone could not add anything else.

MissClareRemembers · 28/07/2018 12:19

How about now...?

😄😂

arranfan · 28/07/2018 12:22

TooTrueToBeGood - waves paddle. Sea, tentative surf, wanting to improve WW. [very small voice, confesses to a Greenland boat and paddle.]

You?

TooTrueToBeGood · 28/07/2018 12:27

Mainly sea. Have done a bit of WW and open canoeing too but much prefer the sea. Nothing wrong with a wooden stick. I don't use one myself but a lot of my friends do and it doesn't hold them back. Just personal preference I think, though a few have switched to see if it helps with their joint pains and it generally seems to.

pippop1317 · 28/07/2018 12:56

@Charley50 verbal tumbleweed 😂

I thought I was the only one going unanswered. Nice to hear it's not just me x

gottastopeatingchocolate · 28/07/2018 13:11

Oh my goodness, OP - you have uncovered something here!!
I am a thread killer too!!
We should form a club where we all post, and the first to respond has to kill the thread!! (JOKE!)
On a serious note, sorry you feel ignored! I don't really explore MN, just look at the most popular threads as they are emailed out.

(Coming back to this thread in an hour to see if I have killed it!!)

DramaAlpaca · 28/07/2018 13:22

to everyone

Please don't let it be me that kills the thread...

MistressDeeCee · 28/07/2018 13:34

Thread killer/unanswered thread comments here too, maybe we aren't part of the 'cool crew' or don't agree with the general consensus enough🙂

EnglishRose13 · 28/07/2018 13:42

I very rarely get any form of acknowledgement to my comments on threads.

Sad times.

arranfan · 28/07/2018 13:47

TooTrueToBeGood - open canoeing too but much prefer the sea

Have you ever done open canoeing on the sea with a sail? It looks fabulous but it's tricky for me to have the confidence that I could do it. I veer between fantasising about myself scudding atop the waves, wind in the sail, like a miniature Onedin Line, and the next moment that I'd be capsized and struggling with tarpaulin.

Mummymummums · 28/07/2018 13:58

No MissClareRemembers today isn't your day, maybe.....

pigsDOfly · 28/07/2018 14:18

My ability to kill a thread when I first joined was almost magical. It seems to have lessened over the years.

And SchadenfreudePersonified I was going to come on and say the same thing about other posters 'plagiarising my golden words' not in those words exactly but I thought I'd prove your point for you Grin

I've written more than one post that someone else has copied it almost verbatim, and I'm sitting there thinking, what the hell, and wondering if like brizzledrizzle I'm invisible and am actually just a figment of my own imagination.

bringincrazyback · 28/07/2018 14:22

And then she said my baby looked like a minger and tipped a fruit shoot over her.

Is it sad that I am now wishing that was a real thread?

NEFink · 28/07/2018 14:22

It depends a lot on what time you post, I reckon.

WineAndTiramisu · 28/07/2018 14:31

I'm the same,I just assumed that I'm not very interesting GrinGrin

RayRayBidet · 28/07/2018 14:38

It's like being back at school. I'm not one of the cool kids.
Either I kill them or no one notices my witty and amusing contributions.
AIBU to think AIBU has been really boring this week though?
I ended up in classics reading ghost stories and CF stories. At least on a zombie thread you can do no harm!

RayRayBidet · 28/07/2018 14:47

Oh god, I have killed it

RayRayBidet · 28/07/2018 14:52

Can anybody hear me?
Is there anybody out there?
*wind blows Ray Ray's sad voice echoes
I'll get me coat.

RayRayBidet · 28/07/2018 14:54

*sobbing

Westwing1 · 28/07/2018 15:00

Don't cry Ray. Smile

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