To Not Make An Effort on DP and DSC holiday return

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My partner of 3 years is taking his 2 children on holiday next week for 2 weeks.
The children stay with us EOW and during the holidays.
I’m not invited. It has never been discussed he just booked it.
They all arrive back on a Thursday evening and the DCs (15 & 17) will be here until the Monday.
The expectation is that I will have food shopped, made beds etc for their return.
AIBU to just leave it & let them order take away ?

Do you have children OP?
I was wondering where they fit in to this or are they grown up?

A good homecoming gift would be a printed tea towel reading, “door mat no longer”.
You are trying waaay to hard to appease this dickhead.

You need a doormat like ours.

I almost wooped when I read you’d booked a holiday. Bloody well done OP

And ffs leave the fridge empty and don’t make beds etc. You’ll be too busy packing

So glad you have booked a holiday, hope you have a wonderful time.

i would love a holiday to myself

** BUT THE WASHING!!

OP that sounds AWESOME, can I come??

"I would put some basics in the fridge and make the beds up though."

Why the f*ing f**k would the OP need to go food shopping or make up beds for a 15 year old, 17 year old and her fully developed selfish arsehole of a DP?! They get back in the afternoon, surely they can sort themselves out?! She's not a servant!

Omg don’t bother shopping or making beds up (what even is that?) You will be too busy GOING ON HOLIDAY.

Thank you all. You’ve made me smile & I’ve been pretty emotional the last few days (had a few tears last night 😭) but there will be no fridge filling or bed making 😂.

Now I have a very important question...

Is this bikini over kill or can a girl never pack enough ????? 😜

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If in doubt take them all

They tiny. Which means you can pack hundreds.

Nah definitely not enough, you need more of everything op 💐

Looks like just about enough for.a day or 2!!! What did he say about your holiday plan?

Take them all, you can roll them up and put in the shoes so them they take even less space .

Yay! Well done OP! That'll wipe the smile off his face

I take a load of bikinis and swimsuits and decide what I need when I get there. Well done OP, have a lovely holiday

take them all go for it! how long are you going for OP?

Enjoy your bloody holiday OP, fuck your 'D'p. He clearly doesn't see you as an equal!

Yay! Your holiday sounds brilliant :)

You won't have time to change beds or do their food shopping, you'll be too busy packing for your holiday!

Wonderful! My friends there just now and her photos look amazing!

Yay. Well done OP. He's an arse and he's using you. Don't do anything for the selfish twat even when you come back.

Have a great holiday.

Woohoo go OP! :-D
Have a totally fabulous holiday, screw DP!