Am I a dramatic diva?

[dramaqueendropout]

I don't want to go into details or really expand on the dynamic of this relationship just if you could let me know if I am a diva or perfectly reasonable that would help

Day free for a bit of fun. Man says you need to get yourself to and from mine today as I always come to yours.

I pointed out he drives and takes him 20 mins late at night or 30-45 mins during the day if traffic busier

For me in this heat the 20 min walk to the bus is more like 30, then either 2 buses or trains and the journey is closer to 2 hrs (possibly less but you need to allow 2) and this would be both ways, so twice that in one day

Am I being a diva to think he could have offered lifts both ways if being a gentleman?

And at the least a lift home if I made all that way on public transport in this heat would be reasonable?

His place would have been more appropriate than mine for the activity we intended.

Am I being a diva??

I did suggest in my response that he could find a hooker and perhaps save money on petrol by one nearer to him who he didn't need to put himself out so much for so that part was probably over dramatic

Is it that weird to think a man might offer you a lift, at the very least a lift home if you're going to have a day of you know what ????

😂 Very true!

Nicknacky because if the man wasn't a loser and a tosser and actually gave a shit about the OP he'd come and pick her up and be pleased that for once they had time to themselves and not a snatched and be quiet bang ok?

And if she gave a shit about him she wouldn’t want him driving all the time. Works both ways and a “snatches and be quiet bang” was perfectly ok for her until he asked her to go to his.

Catch up.

This drives me mad with friends who don't drive, it's EASIER for you to come to me because you drive. Well, why? Why is it my problem you don't drive? You choose not to drive, you want to get some where you take public transport along with its negatives. Potential 45 min drive is a pain in the arse especially if his doing it regularly!! Sorry OP, my anger at friends who just assume I'll come to them because I drive is coming out here, but you have to make the effort to, not having a car/licence does not make travelling not your responsibility??