To think you shouldn’t shame consenting adults for having sex?

[ChunkyMonkey4321]

I recently moved to a new build estate and joined a Facebook group for it. Usually it’s just ‘did anybody else’s bins not get taken today?’ ‘Has anyone seen my cat’ etc etc. Today there was a post from a man saying: ‘did anybody else hear a woman making certain noises last night? (frowny face) If I could hear then children could have heard, hardly appropriate is it? Close the window love’

AIBU to think:
1: he’s shaming a woman, she probably wasn’t alone. He could have also told her partner to close the window!
2: she may well have had children of her own in the house. Or does nobody with children have sex?? (Sarcasm)

Loud sex with open windows is crass, but so too is mentioning it on a FB page.

I long for an age of better behaved neighbours.

"ChunkyMonkey4321
Or perhaps they were just watching Wimbledon on catchup"

😅😏

if it had been a bellowing man shouting 'take it Brenda, who's your Daddy' then it would be his responsibility to shut the window or shut up!

Pissing myself laughing!!

I would hate the noise too, there’s no need to be a screaming loon in the bedroom, I reckon that’s just performance sex.

Seriously some people think that quiet sex means crap sex? Bonkers.
I imagine that all of us parents worked out how to have great, quiet sex when our children were quite young.

I do not want to hear my neighbours at it, no, no, no. Just no. If this woman has been regularly waking her neighbour up/preventing them sleeping with her wild unnecessary moans then it's no surprise they snapped. If it was put as a humiliation post to have a laugh then that's a different matter.

Realistically I think the guy on Facebook thinks he’s a bit of a comedian, rather than jealous/pervy.

My neighbour makes loud noises while he masturbates, his bedroom window overlooks my courtyard and his windows are wide open all year round. It's grim, I can tell you.

While I wouldn’t personally have put it on Facebook, reality is that if you’re having sex so loudly that your neighbours can hear and object then you have no-one to blame but yourselves if someone chooses to take it one step further and mention it on a public platform such as FB.

We frequently see posts on here about people wanting their neighbours to stop having such loud sex. It’s unnecessary, bloody inconsiderate and perhaps a bit of public recognition might make them realise just how they’re being construed.

But pmsl at "take it Brenda, who's your Daddy"