Thank you for understanding tomatoes. I am genuinely heartbroken and can't even be feeling a small amount of what the family will be. Her mother has posted that she is trying to be strong, she is so brave. I just wish there was something that could be done, but apart from donations, I can't think of anything. I just feel that that whatever positivity I could muster for the world has gone. And I've tried so so hard to see the positive in life for my own dd's sake. X