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AIBU to think that Purplebricks don't actually need to know whether I'm married?

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borlottibeans · 21/06/2018 20:42

All I want to do is book a fucking viewing!!!

The only options are Mr, Mrs, Miss or Dr. I was very tempted to put Dr but didn't want to have to keep explaining to people that I've faked a PhD out of spite.

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Wavescrashingonthebeach · 25/06/2018 11:26

Exactly Jessie people dont always get it right, polite correction then everyone moves on. Chuckling at your Dad Grin

SalemBlackCat · 25/06/2018 12:29

Wavescrashingonthebeach Wow, what brought that on? Calm down. Obviously you took it literally and truly believe I abuse people down the phone. I don't. When I wrote that I had family relatives more in mind who do it simply to annoy me.

JessieMcJessie · 25/06/2018 12:45

SalemBlackCat let me remind you of what you said in two previous posts:

I chew out anyone who ever dares de-humanise me by calling me a 'Ms'.

Forgot to add that once a business had only Mr, Mrs or Ms as options. No Miss. I was effing furious! I wrote them an abusive email. And they changed it. Call me a 'ms' at your peril!!

Yet now you are criticising Waves for taking you literally and truly believing you abuse people down the phone? When you said yourself you “chew them out” and were “abusive” emails?

We can all read you know.

reallyanotherone · 25/06/2018 12:55

Obviously you took it literally and truly believe I abuse people down the phone. I don't. When I wrote that I had family relatives more in mind who do it simply to annoy me

As jessie says, “Chewing people out” and “sending abusive emails to companies” is what you wrote. Literally.

I read that as you send abusive emails and yell at people who dare call you ms.

If you meant “annoying family members”, why didn’t you say that?

blackteasplease · 25/06/2018 13:00

It should just be one title for all women over 18. Whichever one but there should be only one

In the meantime Ms is a good default and should be included on all menus.

I would put Dr. I once accidentally put Brigadier as it was the first thing in a v long menu which I must have somehow ignored!

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 25/06/2018 14:14

Tbh my whole post wasnt aimed at Salem it just kind of flowed naturally, i do ramble on i know 😂
I just think alot of the general public dont realise these people on the other end of the phone or in the service or retail sector etc are actual human beings & often speak to them like shit. Now THAT i find far more de-humanising then innocently being given the wrong title..

AtiaoftheJulii · 25/06/2018 23:20

I might be missing the point here... but Purplebricks do have a reason for this and it's very long and boring but out of their control.

Oh, I love a long and boring story, do share!

I tweeted them and they said they're aware of the issue and "looking to get the website updated soon". But then someone else replied to say they've been saying that for two years, and why can't they just be honest! Grin

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