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To think Mumsnet doesn't hate Instagram influencers?

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jamoncrumpets · 30/05/2018 09:04

And for prominent influencers who I will not name here for fear of them kicking off and getting the thread pulled to even hint that this might be the case is irresponsible on their part?

SO much gets discussed on MN every day. So much gets criticised. Social media influencers are a new and intriguing phenomenon - why wouldn't they be discussed here? For better or worse?

Many people have supported influencers for the way they earn money. That gets ignored. Many have politely criticised and pointed out ways it could be more ethical. This gets ignored. One or two have made comments that are personal or cross the line, these have been pounced on and discussed publicly.

The 'arguments' die down. People stop caring. Then prominent influencers go and start the whole thing up again.

Blaming MN is just lazy and irresponsible.

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m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 11:31

@myothernamewasfunnier because of course, your comments and response to @Babaloo88 re. FOD are not personal attacks! Neither are attacks against NB, Meldrums (the list goes on). Kettle, black, pot....sure this has been quoted at you before; you know the rest. Just to clarify, personal attacks against named IGers are permitted, personal attacks against MN posters are not? If this transpires to be accurate, I will be discussing on IG because it is fundamentally and inherently unfair. In the interests of justice, this needs to be aired, for the benefit of all involved. Why......just why, do any of the detractors here take time out of their day to look at stories and / posts of private individuals for whom you have absolutely no respect? I am intrigued; why do you torture yourselves? Why are you compulsively unable to leave the environment that elicits such vitriol? It is unhealthy for you.

Tvcabinet · 12/06/2018 11:36

They are not private individuals, they are businesses. This is (moderated) feed back.

EeebyMum · 12/06/2018 11:37

discussing it in IG in the interests of justice lol @m5slowdown please please do just that, and send us the link.

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 11:42

Do the talk guidelines stipulate I am obliged to explain to you 'why I am still here'? Think the answer is "no". Although deleted, there was a comment alleging that @jamoncrumpets has a reputation for 'stropping off'. That said, should your reference be towards @confidentialwaste; having created heat in the kitchen, perhaps s/he misjudged their ability to take said heat. Either way, I am seeking evidence from you that a poster has left in direct response to a comment I have made. In the absence of this evidential burden being discharged; I shall assume s/he (@jamoncrumpets and or @confidentialwaste) left for reasons known only to themselves and in no way is attributed to my comments. Grin

Tvcabinet · 12/06/2018 11:46

I was referring to Wearelocal who seems to be AWOL since your vitriol in response to her 'outing' you from the previous thread. Would you like a reminder of that unsavoury episode?

stilldazed · 12/06/2018 11:46

so my joke about an influencer giving her kids a day off work has just been deleted....genuine question, if I had made the same joke about Jo Wiley would it have be ok?

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 11:50

@tvcabinet, my point stands. I don't agree with the corporate profile of Apple. I don't look at their products and check in to see what heinous advertising crimes it may or not be commiting. Unless you are conducting business with said business IG accounts; it really is nothing whatsoever to do with you. The only vested interest is the consumer. You have made it quite clear you are not, or likely to be in the future, a consumer of these business accounts. Why are you unable to understand this has absolutely nothing to do with you? Really, WHY??????

Tvcabinet · 12/06/2018 11:50

I have now narrowed you down to one IGer from your use of language m5. I shall not engage with you any further. I do and would never follow you, rest assured.

Tvcabinet · 12/06/2018 11:52

MN moderation of this thread is questionable, I'm afraid.

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 11:57

@tvcabinet, wearelocal took her dissatisfaction to MNHQ whom I will assume acted appropriately in response to her complaint(s). If wearelocal is not capable of standing her ground in a debate; how are you attrubuting this to me exactly? Let's assume any bullying / personal attacks were responded to by MNHQ; which is the appropriate channel for redress. I am guessing you have absolutely no substantive evidence regarding wearelocal's absence. But should you have direct evidence, please do share this, for the purposes of legitimacy (should I be hauled over the coals) and transparency (so posters are not permitted to fabricate a set of circumstances to suit their own ends).

myothernamewasfunnier · 12/06/2018 11:57

You are getting very angry M5. You can't control what other people think so you shouldn't get upset by it, it's not healthy.

BeautyBox · 12/06/2018 12:00

@m5slowdown - plenty of the contributors to these threads have been and still are "consumers". We either follow the instagrammers being discussed, have previously followed them and decided to unfollow as a direct result of what we have learnt from these threads OR we use brands which have been or perhaps one day will be hawked by influencers.

You are trying desperately to shame people into not talking about this but the sensible thing would be for you to stop reading these threads if you genuinely still can't understand why they exist. If you're being deliberately obtuse then why not give it up and just contribute to this thread with something sensible that might bring people round to your way of thinking.

BeautyBox · 12/06/2018 12:01

OR, are you just trolling? How very uninstagram if you

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 12:06

@tvcabinet well done! Grin I get 100k followers for your unassainable Sherlock detective skills and a free gift from a small IG brand. Can't thank you enough. Ps. I have no presence on IG. Perhaps spend your time protecting yourself from your own stupidty! & before you touch the keyboard....."I shall not engage with you any further"; YOUR words! Could you kindly display integrity and commitment to your statements....just once? Nothing you have to say is of interest to me...your statement is welcome. You may get a taste for it! Grin

mrsblakies · 12/06/2018 12:07

The direct consumer argument is deeply flawed. I never once bought The Sun but I was still outraged and offended by the old page 3 girls and signed petitions and voiced my concerns to anyone who would listen including mps. Was I wrong to be allowed to do that? Should I have not bothered as I wasn't a direct consumer??

BeautyBox · 12/06/2018 12:11

@m5slowdown - if you have no instagram presence what are the credentials that allow you to post on this thread?

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 12:23

@beautybox, at the point you decide to unfollow, it really does become nothing to do with you. You are no longer counted in the currency providing traffic, partnerships or other collaborations to the IG account. The IG account is not accountable to you in any way. When fashion houses used real fur, animal rights campaigners protested and this was effective....as opposed to setting up a forum to essentially just bitch about people (and or businesses) whom appeared (to said posters) to be getting a lot more in life than the forum posters. This is about jealousy; without a doubt. All evidence points towards posters becoming riled regarding any activity that provides money or goods..the selling on of gifts fits this agenda perfectly. Selling on of gifts is in no way related to ethics of advertising and or monetisation of children. I have yet to see one person provide a critical argument to either adverts or monetising minors. If any of you really thought this through, you would be able to conflate the biggest concern (and interest) of monetisation of children is that these children will be sitting with other children, navigating their way in a world with adults and children who have not had a 24/7 record of their lives in the public domain. How do these fit together is my question.

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 12:23

Er.....I have an MN account.

myothernamewasfunnier · 12/06/2018 12:25

How do you know about the ins and outs of mother freckle's account if you have no presence on IG? The missing posters may well have left because of your disruptive effect on the thread and your incoherent rambling. I agree the MN moderation on this thread leaves much to be desired.

m5slowdown · 12/06/2018 12:29

@myothernamewasfunnier I applaud you for posting on a forum towards which you appear to have no confidence in its ability to moderate posts breaching its talk guidelines. Grin

SpongeBobGrannyPants · 12/06/2018 12:30

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BeautyBox · 12/06/2018 12:34

@m5slowdown - I'd argue people with an MN and an IG account who may or may not follow influencers have more right to comment than you, who doesn't have an IG presence.

myothernamewasfunnier · 12/06/2018 12:38

I also post on IG which appears to have even less in the way of moderation. It isn't a prerequisite for my participation. Just an observation.

BeautyBox · 12/06/2018 12:38

Anyway, I was off this thread because of the constant derailing and bickering caused by @m5slowdown but their insistence that we shut up has made me more keen than ever to keep discussing the ethics, ASA breaches and shady goings on

Babaloo88 · 12/06/2018 12:39

Jeeez not sure how my comment is a personal attack on FOD? Surely he is ‘personally attacking’ those who has highlighted and spoken up about clearer advertising by not declaring his gifts? What makes him different from his wife and their friends? Because he is a man, it’s now considered a personal attack for mocking his lack of clarity?

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