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To really dislike hearing young children say “cheers”

186 replies

Gertrudethecow · 27/05/2018 21:51

I have had this debate with OH. He used to teach our dc (19mths and 3) to say it with drinks until I said I really didn’t like it.
Friends and relatives have also said it to dc(2) and I’ve sat with gritted teeth. He is particularly inpressionable at this age and will pick up a word and say it at any opportunity.

OP posts:
LipstickHandbagCoffee · 27/05/2018 23:31

Slippery slope You’re right.i forgot to include soft play,when it’s a birthday

midmidlifecrisis · 27/05/2018 23:31
Confused
NeverTwerkNaked · 27/05/2018 23:35

Yanbu. Young lives are being ruined by this all the time. Small toddlers descending into alcoholics after they clink glasses of apple juice for the first time.

MrsTerryPratchett · 27/05/2018 23:42

Mine can say it in three languages.

Does that make it posh or three times as dreadful?

firehousedog · 27/05/2018 23:45

Not the end of the world but i do automatically associate cheers as being in a pub so yeah to some it may seem not right, but not the end of the world as i say.

NeverTwerkNaked · 27/05/2018 23:46

Terry so can mine Grin our children are dooooooomed

shakeyourcaboose · 27/05/2018 23:51

I hope my fellow doooomers are doing it Inna corporal Fraser Dad's Army voice!

MrsRyanGosling15 · 27/05/2018 23:52

Op please please please get this moved to the feminist board. I would gladly appreciate the entertainment!

Genuinely, you can not be a real person. I refuse to believe that anyone would a) think like that and b) actually think normal sane people would agree.

NeverTwerkNaked · 27/05/2018 23:53

Of course caboose Grin

shakeyourcaboose · 27/05/2018 23:54

And hello learning experience- we have from family nationalities- Gesondheid, saluti and slainte! What do the rest of you have?

shakeyourcaboose · 27/05/2018 23:56

@NeverTwerkNaked have you ever been told the story of the old empty barn...m

NeverTwerkNaked · 28/05/2018 00:04

Skål, Nazdrovye, and Santé (when with family / friends from those countries!) ...

BrandNewton · 28/05/2018 00:05

We say "up ya bum!" I think you'd need the smelling salts if your ds said that Grin

sweeneytoddsrazor · 28/05/2018 00:12

We frequently say down the hatch instead of cheers although this is usually when -knocking back- sipping sambuca

sweeneytoddsrazor · 28/05/2018 00:12

strike through fail Grin

KeepServingTheDrinks · 28/05/2018 01:12

OP is right.

The rest of you are negligent alcoholics parents. There needs to be an appropriate toast for each drink. Unfortunately, I don't know them. Maybe more appropriate posters will be along soon and can suggest the right toasts for each of the following:

Water clinking with water
Water clinking with wine
Wine clinking with wine
Prosecco
Milk clinking with water
Milk clinking with milk
Too drunk to carry on with this charade.....

MrsTerryPratchett · 28/05/2018 02:13

NeverTwerkNaked we have; cin cin (chin chin, Italian), or salute, santé (French) and various disgusting ones that are Scottish or English.

Since most of them mean 'health' or 'happiness' I don't really see what the issue is for the OP.

Slapdasherie · 28/05/2018 02:33

DC loves a cheers big ears, 'that's how it goes big nose' answer here!

Where I'm from the traditional response to Cheers, Big Ears is Same goes, Big Nose.

LeeValley2 · 28/05/2018 06:00

I never say cheers, it’s awful. The type of person who says cheers usually calls men mate and women love.

YouAreNotImportant · 28/05/2018 06:11

Cheers isn't suitable for children or women?

Whenever you think you've seen the most FFS threads on MN there's another one..

Blaablaablaa · 28/05/2018 07:53

@leevalley sweeping generalisation much? I say cheers to mean thank you but have never called anyone mate or love ( it either gender)

I'm assuming everyone who objects to the word cheers speaks with perfect RP English and uses no slang or local colloquialisms....

BustopherJones · 28/05/2018 07:57

I once said cheers and sprouted a moustache instantly.

SerenDippitty · 28/05/2018 08:03

We say Iechyd Da round here!

SamHeughansLeftEyebrow · 28/05/2018 08:30

Cheers was DS1's first word.

I use it all the time to say thanks to people. Didn't know that my XX status was meant to prevent me being able to say cheers.

SadieHH · 28/05/2018 08:32

We can't say cheers m'dears anymore? Sad. We're all girls. I guess DH could say it, having a penis and all that...