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AIBU, cheeky fuckers - a holiday edition

353 replies

HolidayCF · 27/05/2018 19:24

On holiday with all my DC (5 of them), ages 15-3. Single parent. So a busmans holiday really.

2 days ago kids came back trailing another random kid. Happens every year, always kids with no siblings. No problem in theory, 5 kids 6 kids doesn’t make much difference. Then kid would NOT go away. Knocking on the chalet door at 8am, (parents smiling and waving from their decking) 😒, we left for the beach at 10am. An hr later kid turns up with his parents. They sit 50ms away and kid comes over to play.

So now in effect I’m watching their kid plus mine as they sunbathe and read all day. Sent him back at lunch. He comes back the second we stop eating. I send all kids over to his side to play. Mum then brings them back as her husband is asleep!

Again same thing today, kid came to the pool. Didn’t see his parents all day as presumably I’m supervising him? Asked him if his parents knew where he was, he said yes. I went back to his chalet (left teens watching kids) and asked them if they knew where he was. Parents sunning themselves on their deck. Mother at least had the good sense to look embarrassed and said ‘oh he’s loved playing with your lot, send him back if it gets too much’ WTF?! I kind of laughed and said well there is a lot of them, not sure I can supervise him too! She said oh he’s a brilliant swimmer don’t worry

Just finished dinner and he rocks up and starts playing outside with the younger ones. Got ice creams from the shop and couldn’t leave him out as he went with them. I can see the CFs sat two decks over drinking wine and reading.

AIBU to send all kids over there and lock my door for an hour 🤔. How long before they send them back do you reckon?

OP posts:
Quantumblue · 30/05/2018 02:39

I think you have done the right thing to set some boundaries. I feel sorry for the little boy with the disengaged parents, but he is not your problem or responsibility.

Suresurelah · 30/05/2018 06:47

How did the trip go yesterday holidayCF

Motoko · 30/05/2018 07:58

For example when the mum brought her kid back coz her husband was sleeping - she could have stayed and sat chatting to you.

Exactly, and I'm sure OP would be better company than the woman's husband. It could be mutually beneficial.

timeisnotaline · 30/05/2018 15:22

Everyone is sorry for the only child but it is 100% the parents problem not the ops. If it is about your child having fun then a parent should have scrambled along to the beach with them, helped watch, bought a round of icypoles if op approves and got to know their dc is having an awesome holiday. Said copious thank yous, brought a bottle of wine over and shared it one evening, NOT instantly sent the other kids back, Etc. These parents clearly don’t want a bar.

AnneOfCleavage · 30/05/2018 22:30

I hear you LEM. Went camping last year with 12 yr old DD and she preferred hanging with us or on own rather than be brave enough to ask to join in with others. The other kids were happy to come and look through our telescope and chat but DD still wouldn't ask to join them with games (they were boys though so at nearly teen aged she was shy to ask).
She would play on the swings and chat with tiny children rather than her own age.
At 7 though she would just play with whoever but we tended to have other children over hanging with us as we were more fun apparently - by more fun I mean we took notice of them rather than their disinterested parents.

olbndansmummy · 01/06/2018 18:48

How is your holiday now op?

Goodadvice1980 · 01/06/2018 19:20

Zombie thread!

SneakyGremlins · 01/06/2018 19:25

Zombie thread?? It's five days old Hmm

NinjaPig · 01/06/2018 19:25

How is it a zombie thread when it's only 5 days old?

Foslady · 01/06/2018 19:33

Zombie??? Isn’t the OP still on holiday?!!

crazycatgal · 01/06/2018 19:54

Zombie? It's a 5 day old thread, calm down.

WhatchaMaCalllit · 01/06/2018 20:04

LOL at the Zombie nature of this thread...the real zombie thread is the carpet fitter stormed out one! Still going strong since 2012 Grin

Lorddenning1 · 01/06/2018 20:29

Have you got a link to that one :)

Lorddenning1 · 01/06/2018 20:29

Have you got a link to that one :)

WhiteFreesias · 01/06/2018 20:56

Zombie 😂

HolyMountain · 01/06/2018 20:59

Grin it’s worth taking up a post to laugh about a zombie thread being stated.

Billybigballs123 · 01/06/2018 21:03

Poor lad. At least your children have befriended him. Crap parenting. Feel for you op, not fair but I bet he really appreciates the company

BalaBrith · 01/06/2018 21:14

I'm really curious over what / if anything has happened today.
I do feel for the kid, musn't be much fun if his parents aren't paying a blind bit of notice to him! But it's certainly not your responsibility, op

MsJolly · 02/06/2018 10:26

Hope the end of your holiday was lovely and you're home safe OPBrew

Boulty · 03/06/2018 18:48

Ah those people that have just the one child... and then fail to give them any attention yet they spout off that having more than one child means 'you cannot possibly give then all attention" lol

Yep you have found prize CF 'parents.... I feel for you and their poor child

Boulty · 03/06/2018 18:49

It might be a zombie but I bet there is some poor single parent or parents currently looking after some unwanted sprog whilst the lazy CF's who he should be with sit around drinking wine and ignoring him!

NotClear · 03/06/2018 21:18

Why is it a zombie thread?

CruCru · 04/06/2018 10:47

The OP's kids are probably back at school today.

NotClear · 04/06/2018 14:25

I wonder why the op just suddenly disappeared?

LuluBellaBlue · 04/06/2018 16:04

Hoping for another CF update Grin

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