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AIBU?

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To think thong bikini bottoms are obscene

319 replies

Hanng · 07/05/2018 16:17

These swimsuits seem popular all of a sudden, and women have no problem getting their bums out at swimming pools or public beaches.

I personally think they're too much and I don't want to see anyone's bum cheeks. I probably sound jealous or like an old lady, but even if I had the body of a supermodel I wouldn't wear it. I feel embarrassed with a small hint of cleavage!

They're also not very flattering, even on the most attractive bodies. I just think they look cheap and tacky and I wonder when it became acceptable to wear something so revealing in public. AIBU?

OP posts:
PlatypusPie · 07/05/2018 20:29

You need to go to Copacabana Beach, Rio. They all wear them there and they look absolutely beautiful and peachy
@Roussette We were on Ipanema Beach a few years ago and, in a high cut, halter necked one piece , I have never felt more overdressed in my life ! Every woman, of whatever physical type or age was wearing them and looked relaxed and happy in the sun. My husband’s eyes were swivelling behind his sunglasses .

HildaZelda · 07/05/2018 20:30

@Bugjune, I don't generally shit in public, out of anywhere. There's a big difference between wearing a thong on the beach and shitting on the beach. I can't say know anyone who would actually be doing that.

Lweji · 07/05/2018 20:35

No it couldn't, it's all about practicalities, but also wanting to look nice. With these thongs it's more about feeling the need to flash your flesh.

It could easily have been said about other body parts about a century ago.
These days, bums are not that much of a taboo.

But I'm not surprised, as there are still threads on MN debating whether to wear even a bikini.

camelfinger · 07/05/2018 20:35

I think they generally look shit. Unless you’re about 15, then it’s probably just inappropriate.

Awomansworkisneverdone · 07/05/2018 20:37

I would find a 15 year old wearing a thong bikini more obscene than a grown women. But each to their own Confused

RoseWhiteTips · 07/05/2018 20:37

They must be so uncomfortable and unhygienic. Bleurgh

mishfish · 07/05/2018 20:40

I think I’ve seen more old men in thongs on beaches than I have women of all ages.

NCJaneDoeNut · 07/05/2018 20:41

YANBU. It’s pornographic.

Charlie97 · 07/05/2018 20:43

@camelfinger

I think they generally look shit. Unless you’re about 15, then it’s probably just inappropriate.

15 year old in a thong bikini!!! How fucking vile!!! You think that's a good look? I hope to god you don't have daughters!!!

Lweji · 07/05/2018 20:43

It’s pornographic.

Dear god. Not even remotely.

RoseWhiteTips · 07/05/2018 20:44

Creambun2

They are incredibly vulgar. Not worn by ABC1 for sure.

Haha..

Awomansworkisneverdone · 07/05/2018 20:44

My words exactly

Lweji · 07/05/2018 20:45

I think @camelfinger meant that they look shit in adult women and are inappropriate in 15 year olds. Not that they are ok in 15 year olds.

Awomansworkisneverdone · 07/05/2018 20:45

Pornographic Grin
Your watching the wrong stuff!!!!

RoseWhiteTips · 07/05/2018 20:46

Is this a great look?
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HeedMove · 07/05/2018 20:46

My arse is certainely too big for them but have to admit I do like a nice bum and they honestly dont bother me. Loads of people wore them in ibiza last year even really young teenagers which creeped me out.

Pfftlife · 07/05/2018 20:46

😂😂 I've just ordered a couple of pairs and will be going topless in them Wink

tinyme77 · 07/05/2018 20:46

YANBU. Too much on show. Tasteless. (In my country - appreciate that this is different in other countries). Just don't need to see it. Imagine if you got sunburn there. There are some things that can't be unseen.

Turkkadin · 07/05/2018 20:48

But why not just go the whole hog and get your fanny or cock and balls out?

Lweji · 07/05/2018 20:48

This thread feels as if we have jumped into the 1920s and everyone is still in these.

To think thong bikini bottoms are obscene
Awomansworkisneverdone · 07/05/2018 20:48

Ditto Smile

Awomansworkisneverdone · 07/05/2018 20:49

Because showing genitalia is a little different than bum cheeks.. right ?!
Oh lord

Lweji · 07/05/2018 20:50

Is this a great look?

Certainly not. It shows previous tan marks. She should have stuck with the thong from the start of the season. Wink

seafoodeatit · 07/05/2018 20:51

I really dislike thongs too. They're pretty revealing but if they're at the beach/pool fair enough, I find it much weirder with the people wearing their bikinis out in the park today.

I remember holidaying in Turkey once and being horrified at pre teen girls walking around in thongs.

Awomansworkisneverdone · 07/05/2018 20:52

Maybe she feels sexy in them? Confident? Who cares! Salute to all the women who don’t care what others think and do and wear what they CHOOSE