Aibu to not want this person back in my house?

[Animalsoffarthingwood]

I had someone in my house recently to do some work from a well known utility company.

I let this person use the toilet as you do, and when he left I realised he'd pissed everywhere, on the toilet seat, on the floor, there were hairs on the toilet seat, it was disgusting. He had a wash in the sink and left hairs in the sink. Just gross.

I didn't know until he'd left, but doubt I'd have been brave enough to say anything anyway.

Apparently he forgot to do something when he was here, and now keeps ringing me to come and finish the job. The thing he forgot is in no way detrimental to me, and doesn't affect me in any way so aibu to just completely ignore him now?

I don't particularly want to look at him again after I had to mop his piss and pubes up from my own bathroom.

Leaving the toilet in a filthy state makes me really lose my cool, I was in the ladies at work once and had to use a just vacated cubicle that was atrocious. Poo everywhere, and I knew who had left it. And I couldn't believe that a person who occupied that level of employment could be so gross, I couldn't even tell her off !

That's bloody disgusting, glad you've reported it.

And my attitude is , your mess you clean up.

Bloody hell gin I clicked on that link, wtf sort of forum was that? ... that will teach me not to click on random links in Mumsnet 🤢

For everyone joining the thread who hasn’t RTFT - yes, OP HAS reported him.

Sorry for the link and all the churned stomachs glad you reported OP!

Someone once broke into my car and wanked onto the dashboard bloody weirdo. Maybe he had a thing for crappy old Ford Fiestas

Boy there may be filthy fuckers of both sex but it’s generally only men who do such things for sexual power kicks.

It didn't cross my mind until a pp said. Maybe he took a while in the bathroom to put a hidden camera in and has tried to return to retrieve the camera!

Reading the thread that gin linked to has made me not want to use a unisex loo ever again. Boak.

Just reading what this pig did in another woman's home has made my bum go funny.

Caribou

^^ 🤣

You're instincts are right. The other women on this chat line are supporting you and clarifying the situation for you. It's much clearer if you are not directly involved.
He is a creep. Don't be frightened by him. Stop him now. Tell his company what a mess he made and that he keeps calling you. Tell the police too. If only so it's on record should he try to make a habit of it.

Oh I see you have reported it. Good for you!
And us for that matter!

Does he want to come around and retrieve a hidden camera ?
Another poster wondered that too.

Search the whole bathroom

Queensarseclanger.
Is that a fact or is it a conclusion of your sexeseist mind.

@Vicky1990

&Queensarseclanger.*
Is that a fact or is it a conclusion of your sexeseist mind.

I'm not sure whether that's meant to be a joke?

Ooooooh, I love my ‘sexeseist’ mind I do Vicky1990