Aibu to not want this person back in my house?

[Animalsoffarthingwood]

I had someone in my house recently to do some work from a well known utility company.

I let this person use the toilet as you do, and when he left I realised he'd pissed everywhere, on the toilet seat, on the floor, there were hairs on the toilet seat, it was disgusting. He had a wash in the sink and left hairs in the sink. Just gross.

I didn't know until he'd left, but doubt I'd have been brave enough to say anything anyway.

Apparently he forgot to do something when he was here, and now keeps ringing me to come and finish the job. The thing he forgot is in no way detrimental to me, and doesn't affect me in any way so aibu to just completely ignore him now?

I don't particularly want to look at him again after I had to mop his piss and pubes up from my own bathroom.

Dirty,dirty, dirty. Taking your hospitality for granted. Tell the unhygienic bar steward to invest in a tube of Veet and piss off.

Totally report him. This is clearly intentional. And to be honest if he thinks this is acceptable/ amusing, who knows what he might try next.

I must have had literally hundreds of workmen in my homes over the years. Nothing remotely close to this has ever happened.

Did he go all over the floor or was it just dribbling from the loo seat/ who does either anyway

maybe he fancies you and that is why he rang.....

did well to report

why do people think he did it intentionally? more likely he has bad habits

I've had the electrician leave the bathroom in a piss riddled, foul smelling state a couple of times now. I'd assumed it was accidental but now I'm rethinking it.

My mil had someone wank into her curtains in her spare room. No doubt he gets off to it and all his other haunts in other houses where women are vulnerable alone minding young children, or just single / living alone.

So glad you reported it OP! He might have form for it, and they’ll deal with it now. You need not worry.

It’s a well know way for a certain kind of man to mark a spot in a woman’s private area such as a bathroom or bedroom @SofieMonde, bless your naïveté!

^ never too late to learn something :)

It sounds liek he was more careless and ignorant than wanting to mark his territory or get off on it.

@paranoidpammywhammy2

@I've had the electrician leave the bathroom in a piss riddled, foul smelling state a couple of times now. I'd assumed it was accidental but now I'm rethinking it.*

Now you have something to really be paranoid about 😲

Bet that next time he comes you'll tell him to feck off if he asks to use the loo. Lock the bathroom door before he gets there.

Bold fail...

Just reading what this pig did in another woman's home has made my bum go funny.

I think this is not that uncommon sadly. I remember one of those hidden camera shows (it was a serious one) showing what a variety of tradesmen got up to when the lady of the house said she had to nip out for five minutes. It was very revealing, and not in a good way .

Some people are just messy, but the wanting to come back puts him firmly in the deliberate category. Definitely insist he doesn’t return.

How on earth do you get pubes on someone's toilet seat unless you pull a few loose ones out and spread them around? That's not an accident.
How disgusting.

I hope your laundry basket wasn't in the room he was 'washing' in?

I parked near someone in a van, last week, I could hear him shouting talking to his friend and asking him what his new landlady was like & was the area nice?

I gathered he must have been renting a room, as he then shouted "Have you been through her underwear drawer yet?"

I suppose he wanted me to look over in shock. But I walked off normally.

'If I'm honest I feel a bit intimidated to report him, He'd got a couple of his workmates to ring me to come and finish this job as they were 'in the area. This is hugely fishy and deeply inappropriate*

I agree! Very creepy.

No reputable company would have their workmen individually phoning clients to finish the job. Never mind their mates.

Please report him!

I was once creeped out when police had to come round due to trespassers on my parents property (mum in a home and dad in hospital) and the policeman asked me if I was married... :-O
I was so shocked but don't live in that country so just left it - had enough going on, kids and work etc..... (and yes, it was UK).

Report him! That coming from someone who often visits other peoples homes as part of our own company, we are IT/telephone engineers. When we use other the facilities we would never dream of doing that, in fact I clean the sink and avoid using any clean looking towels. Leaving it in that state smacks of total disrespect, he needs reporting.

he'd been a while in there and had come out soaking wet

Where abouts was he.. erm wet?

I want to know why he wants his mates round?

I would be worried that it's,

1. To go through laundry basket
2. You don't think he's put a camera somewhere & wants to retrieve it?
3. He dropped something dodgy

@animalsoffarthingwood

Yes do report him. He should not be reporting you, and he sounds like a weird pervert.

He has defo done this on purpose.

SORRY, I meant, he should not be HOUNDING you...

I was already raising an eyebrow at him saying he had 'had a wash'. Why would you do even that in a customer's house? The rest of it is just awful. Hope you hear something back soon.

Oh dear God I have laughed till the tears rolled down my face .
'This happened to me too! A utilities engineer had a MASSIVE shit in my bathroom that he couldn’t flush and that blocked the whole system even once my husband attacked it with a stick. '
Just told my DH who works for BT ,The Hop.
He swears he has never done anything like it.........

What this guy did is really disturbing. Good thing your post has flagged up that behaviour like this is actually a thing to watch out for, It’s obviously intended to intimidate and control you. He probably got off on the fact that you had to feel degraded by having to clean up his piss and hair. Your home should not be violated in that way. That guy has serious issues and shouldn’t be allowed into people’s homes. He needs to be reported.

Yes please report him- he’s either completely unaware of the mess he makes, in which case he needs to be called up on it and retrained, or he’s deliberately marking territory...yuk yuk yuk!!!!

I was just wondering, if he had a wash and was splashing his face, are you sure the wet on the floor and wear wasn't from that?

PLEASE be safe. He didn't "forget" anything; he's up to no good.