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Softzilla returns..... to soft play

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 24/04/2018 19:57

Probably will be a boring thread as i mainly intend to continue just ignoring and refusing to be drawn in to any games but...

Guess where I went today? And who I bumped into there? (I really need to find another place to hang out with people! )
Well she was there when I turned up with party mum. We greeted her with a surprised slightly awkward 'oh... hi!' which she returned, but then sat at a different table.
Later in the afternoon when I'd got home she called and i picked up without thinking. She said she wanted to chat and make it so that we could start going to our usual group again - she seemed to be under the impression that I was no longer going. And asked if she could come over right then. I said no sorry as it was time for dinner/ bath/ bed etc for my dc. I also told her that I was still attending the group and that she didn't need to worry about attending, I joked that it's big enough for both of us..... and she put the phone down. I wondered if it was a mistake but she never called back if it was and I don't want to call her.

OP posts:
LexieLulu · 29/05/2018 09:08

Like why is she inviting you to a place where no one else will be?

SoaringSwallow · 29/05/2018 09:13

If it's a pub then other people will be there, just not friends. Still, definitely don't be going.

piefacedClique · 29/05/2018 09:15

I think I’ve missed something.... have you had a response from the most recent text?

gambaspilpilmyfav · 29/05/2018 09:16

Interestingly on the other thread the 'tight mum' has supposedly sent a text this morning saying she has been taking advantage of the mums and won't be going to soft play. Oh and the tight mum has 7 DC now. It's all rather amusing over there....i really do think it's softzilla!

Pigflewpast · 29/05/2018 09:17

What was in the pulled messages, assume name change fail, has no one else been invited to this "party"?

YouTheCat · 29/05/2018 09:21

Whether it's SZ or not, the other OP sounds deranged.

Willow2017 · 29/05/2018 09:24

She is batshit!
Does she not realise that you would mention it to your friends? If no one else has been invited then she really has lost the plot and time to consider police involvement. Wtf was she planning to do and say to you on her own?

HettySunshine · 29/05/2018 09:38

Just that pig. Op used the wrong username but said that no one else had mentioned an anniversary party.

aaaaargghhhhelpme · 29/05/2018 09:39

Ah think I’ve missed something. But I can guess. Other friends weren’t invited? It wasn’t the big dc get together after all?!

My admiral ackbar senses were right.

If you’ve sent the text saying don’t contact me again and She responds id be straight to the police. She is batshit

Is her grammar appalling? Do her texts lack any sense of punctuation? I mean in all likelihood it’s a bored kid at half term but you never know

Looneytune253 · 29/05/2018 09:49

I don’t think that other thread is softzilla, it may be ABOUT softzilla as that’s how this one started but it doesn’t sound like it would actually be her? Anyway @Unreasonableunreasonableness is not the one scrimping so it doesn’t make sense it’s about her??

Looneytune253 · 29/05/2018 09:50

I don’t think that other thread is softzilla, it may be ABOUT softzilla as that’s how this one started but it doesn’t sound like it would actually be her? Anyway @Unreasonableunreasonableness is not the one scrimping so it doesn’t make sense it’s about her??

Lizzie48 · 29/05/2018 09:50

The number of kids is a red herring. She just added that detail on the other thread in a clumsy attempt to cover her tracks. I think if that OP weren't SZ she would have said no quite quickly to nip that in the bud.

Nikephorus · 29/05/2018 09:55

before you write the post, look at the bar above that shows the name displayed, click on it and write your other name in the bar.
I didn't know that! Cool Grin

Pigflewpast · 29/05/2018 09:58

Thanks hetty

MintyChops · 29/05/2018 09:59

Did you text her OP?

MiddleClassProblem · 29/05/2018 10:19

Well if the other thread actually is her she’s shown herself right up anyway to not only be a fantasist but also someone with lack of empathy.

smurfit · 29/05/2018 10:49

It's a trap!! She's trying to get you on her own since you won't talk to her anywhere else.

I don't see conspiracy theories everywhere...

bluemascara · 29/05/2018 10:52

The other thread is gone

bluemascara · 29/05/2018 10:52

The other thread is gone

Mirrorwriting · 29/05/2018 11:57

Is there a link to the reddit? I last posted around 8 and want to know what happened.

MyOtherProfile · 29/05/2018 12:27

OP are your dc likely to end up at the same primary school?

ohfourfoxache · 29/05/2018 12:46

What the actual fuck? Shock

Unreasonable how did you find out no one else was invited?

SZ is beyond batshit, just be careful. Have you warned her that you’ll go to the police?

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 29/05/2018 12:49

SZ invited you to a "party" in a pub as the only guests?
Shock

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 29/05/2018 12:50

I have had a response!
Let's not being this between the kids now.
If you feel awkward staying perhaps you can come and drop your daughter in then pick her up later.
Errrm.... No!
Planning not to respond but I suppose I'll have to be calling the police.....

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Dobby1sAFreeElf · 29/05/2018 12:54

She's changed tack, trying to make you look unreasonable. Definitely don't respond at all. I'd say leave calling the police right now and see how she reacts to your radio silence first. If she contacts again then call them.