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To wonder where the hell he is?

452 replies

TheHeightSupremacist · 14/04/2018 20:59

Been seeing someone for a couple of months, at least twice a week but it’s been nearly every day over the past couple of weeks. He has been really into me, cooked for me, taken me away numerous times and said the l word very early on.

We had plans to go to his friends birthday tonight, spoke to him earlier and everything was fine. Text later to let him know what time I would be over, not read and no reply, we are now 2 and a half hours after we were supposed to meet and I haven’t heard from him since 3.30pm. No messages read, no answer to my calls. Getting a bit concerned, where could he be?!

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DragonMummy1418 · 15/04/2018 19:49

Ha! Glitch it is then.

Flatpackjackie · 15/04/2018 19:54

Great news! Phew.

YeahAndThenWhat · 15/04/2018 20:02

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Mouseville65 · 15/04/2018 20:05

I really don't mean to be harsh (and I don't think I ever have been on MN) BUT 'finally made it downstairs' followed by 'vacuumed for 20 mins and cleaned the bathroom' just screams drama queen! Your either too ill to clean or your not! Seriously if you can do all that but your 'just too exhausted' to just give the man a list there is something seriously off?? If your looking to leave just leave, you don't need a MN thread telling you it's ok!

Mouseville65 · 15/04/2018 20:06

I really don't mean to be harsh (and I don't think I ever have been on MN) BUT 'finally made it downstairs' followed by 'vacuumed for 20 mins and cleaned the bathroom' just screams drama queen! Your either too ill to clean or your not! Seriously if you can do all that but your 'just too exhausted' to just give the man a list there is something seriously off?? If your looking to leave just leave, you don't need a MN thread telling you it's ok!

EmmaGrundyForPM · 15/04/2018 20:10

Mouseville are you on the wrong thread?

PolkaDotBlues · 15/04/2018 20:12

@Mouseville65 think you might be on the wrong thread...!

GhostedDad · 15/04/2018 20:13

Wow this thread has gone glitchy!

Orchardgreen · 15/04/2018 20:15

Please tell us the cat has been fed.

HappyFeet1212 · 15/04/2018 20:21

and what happened to the parrot?

Inkstainedmags · 15/04/2018 20:27

Lol. mouseville65 is on the wrong thread but bang on for the thread she meant to post on.

StaplesCorner · 15/04/2018 20:34

To be honest I think mouse was a bit harsh on the parrot.

Iputthescrewinthetuna · 15/04/2018 20:37

What thread was @Mouseville65 supposed to be on?

Emma198 · 15/04/2018 20:42

The AIBU post about getting divorced in twenties. To be fair OP was moaning cos she was ill but cleaned the bathroom as DP hadnt bothered (He was working) and consensus seems to be the world wouldn't have ended and she shouldn't have bothered.

ShinyShooney · 15/04/2018 20:54

@BananasAreTheSourceOfEvil

You decided to keep having babies with this man Confused Leopards don't change their spots.

greenlanes · 15/04/2018 21:00

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greenlanes · 15/04/2018 21:00

Actually Theheight people have bothered to post on your thread because they have been gas lighted, they have had partners disappear with no notice, they have had that behaviour happen to friends and family members, so it is clearly not that unusual. It must be traumatising and distressing. Yet they came on to your thread to offer you support.

Yet when finally your boyfriend woke up (?)'you are dismissing all of that experience as mumsnetters telling you to LTB. I hope for your sake he really is as reliable as you think. Many have found otherwise to their cost.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 15/04/2018 21:00

Ok this thread is now seriously weird.

PolkaDotBlues · 15/04/2018 21:01

@EmmaGrundyForPM thinking of putting a bag of popcorn in the microwave it's that entertaining!

SickofThomasTheTank · 15/04/2018 21:04

Wow @BananasAreTheSourceOfEvil what a selfish prick your ex is!

Hope you dumped his childish arse pretty quickly after that? Does he give up his nights out to have contact with his kids at all? I'm guessing not x

SickofThomasTheTank · 15/04/2018 21:04

Wow @BananasAreTheSourceOfEvil what a selfish prick your ex is!

Hope you dumped his childish arse pretty quickly after that? Does he give up his nights out to have contact with his kids at all? I'm guessing not x

Coveredinbeeeeeeeeeeeees · 15/04/2018 21:04

Think a lot of folk are on the wrong thread... But mn has been very weird today, I keep getting entire threads showing as deleted but when I refresh they come back!

WeirdyMcBeardy · 15/04/2018 21:12

Glad to hear all is well OP and what happened is definitely the most logical conclusion. There is far too much hysteria on here.

SickofThomasTheTank · 15/04/2018 21:12

@TheHeightSupremacist Op, that sounds incredibly suspicious to me! He could quote easily have had someone round and just got rid of them before speaking to you. Look for clues. If there aren't any you won't find any!!! No harm done.

Personally I think it sounds like he's dropping hints....

SickofThomasTheTank · 15/04/2018 21:12

@TheHeightSupremacist Op, that sounds incredibly suspicious to me! He could quote easily have had someone round and just got rid of them before speaking to you. Look for clues. If there aren't any you won't find any!!! No harm done.

Personally I think it sounds like he's dropping hints....