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To wonder where the hell he is?

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TheHeightSupremacist · 14/04/2018 20:59

Been seeing someone for a couple of months, at least twice a week but it’s been nearly every day over the past couple of weeks. He has been really into me, cooked for me, taken me away numerous times and said the l word very early on.

We had plans to go to his friends birthday tonight, spoke to him earlier and everything was fine. Text later to let him know what time I would be over, not read and no reply, we are now 2 and a half hours after we were supposed to meet and I haven’t heard from him since 3.30pm. No messages read, no answer to my calls. Getting a bit concerned, where could he be?!

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PeapodBurgundy · 15/04/2018 18:04

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bettytaghetti · 15/04/2018 18:12

Thanks for that laugh Coconutcreampie!

obvs the educated mumsnet would say "hope you're ok"

TerfsUp · 15/04/2018 18:12

I think so, yes.

FairiesVsPixies · 15/04/2018 18:18

I'm worried about the poor cat, I hope it's been fed.
I think the cat's gone the same way as the parrot.

woodlanddreamer · 15/04/2018 18:20

taken me away numerous times
This was the giveaway - see him a couple of times a week & taken her away numerous times. How does that work in 2 months?

letsdolunch321 · 15/04/2018 18:24

Blimey it has been a long time since op last posted.

They must be in the throws of passion still making up or she is busy listing all his excellent gear on e-bay 🙄

spacestranger · 15/04/2018 18:26

Oh dear OP, I hope you found him

spacestranger · 15/04/2018 18:27

Oh dear OP, I hope you found him

ALongHardWinter · 15/04/2018 18:29

I think the OP has gone the same way as her BF.

halfwitpicker · 15/04/2018 18:29

No news eh

RoseWhiteTips · 15/04/2018 18:30

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EatSleepCake · 15/04/2018 18:31

Any news?

EatSleepCake · 15/04/2018 18:31

Any news?

EatSleepCake · 15/04/2018 18:31

Any news?

Hausfullofgrls · 15/04/2018 18:37

Well this was fun.

Hausfullofgrls · 15/04/2018 18:38

Well this was fun.

advocatingmum · 15/04/2018 18:46

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TheJoyOfSox · 15/04/2018 18:46

@TheHeightSupremacist

It’s been 20 hours now since we last heard from you. Please do the right thing and tell us what happened.

  1. Evens. Old bf has gone to friends birthday and got friends to lie about him being there.
  1. 7/4 on. bf is snuggling up with his current dp who has been away for the last few months
  1. 16/1. Bf is wooing his ex.
  1. 150/1 . Aliens have abducted bf.
  1. 7000/1 . Aliens have abducted bf and HeightSup.
  1. 2/1 bf lost or broke his phone.
  1. 75/1 bf has been involved in any kind of accident and is in hospital/ditch
  1. 140//1 bf is chained to his crazy ex’s radiator in a basement.

Place your bets ladies and gents.

Iputthescrewinthetuna · 15/04/2018 18:53

@TheJoyOfSox
It has to be alien abduction!

Iputthescrewinthetuna · 15/04/2018 18:53

@TheJoyOfSox
It has to be alien abduction!

DragonMummy1418 · 15/04/2018 19:01

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FairiesVsPixies · 15/04/2018 19:18

How do you tag the OP?

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TheHeightSupremacist · 15/04/2018 19:21

So sorry I haven’t updated!

Yes I did actually go and check at the birthday meal and he wasn’t there.

I was checking at his one last time when I got a phone call from him, he’d fallen asleep on the sofa at about 4pm and just hadn’t woken up - dickhead! He had just woken up. So lights came on and he made his way to the door and let me in. Safe to say he felt like an utter bellend when he realised he’d missed the meal and the whole night out! He has spent the last 24 hours apologising to both me and his friend.

I really am quite blown away by the man hating ‘he’s a cheat’ cynicism of mumsnet, and I say this as a woman who has been cheated on and gas lighted by my ex husband.

We’ve only been in a relationship for the last 2 months but this guy has been a friend of a friend who I have known vaguely for over 20 years. I know he doesn’t have a hidden partner, the reason we have seen each other so much more the last couple of weeks is because I have been off work as I am a school teacher, not because his imaginary partner has taken their imaginary kids away. Hmm

Thanks for the Flowers, practical advice and support from those who offered it but honestly some of you need to calm down on the LTB, he’s a cheater man-hating. Yes some men are cheating, lying, manipulative cunts but so are some women and I certainly wouldn’t like someone to assume that about me just because of my gender!

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TheHeightSupremacist · 15/04/2018 19:22

So sorry I haven’t updated!

Yes I did actually go and check at the birthday meal and he wasn’t there.

I was checking at his one last time when I got a phone call from him, he’d fallen asleep on the sofa at about 4pm and just hadn’t woken up - dickhead! He had just woken up. So lights came on and he made his way to the door and let me in. Safe to say he felt like an utter bellend when he realised he’d missed the meal and the whole night out! He has spent the last 24 hours apologising to both me and his friend.

I really am quite blown away by the man hating ‘he’s a cheat’ cynicism of mumsnet, and I say this as a woman who has been cheated on and gas lighted by my ex husband.

We’ve only been in a relationship for the last 2 months but this guy has been a friend of a friend who I have known vaguely for over 20 years. I know he doesn’t have a hidden partner, the reason we have seen each other so much more the last couple of weeks is because I have been off work as I am a school teacher, not because his imaginary partner has taken their imaginary kids away. Hmm

Thanks for the Flowers, practical advice and support from those who offered it but honestly some of you need to calm down on the LTB, he’s a cheater man-hating. Yes some men are cheating, lying, manipulative cunts but so are some women and I certainly wouldn’t like someone to assume that about me just because of my gender!

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DragonMummy1418 · 15/04/2018 19:22

Just start typing a new message - write @ and it brings up a list of posters and the OP will be top of the list and have a blue OP sign next to it.

(I am on the app - not sure if it works if your on the full website)