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AIBU. To think that 49 is not too old to wear a band tshirt?

87 replies

Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 12:57

I was told this today by someone wearing so much polyester she'd ignite if she ran upstairs too fast.

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Belindabauer · 11/04/2018 12:58

Of course it's not too old.
Smile and ignore.

MrsAukerman · 11/04/2018 12:58

Wear what the fuck you want.
At any age.
Easy.

TwitterQueen1 · 11/04/2018 13:00

Depends on the band OP Wink
ELO - go for it
any rock band - go for it

today's wannabe bands.... not so sure Grin

Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 13:00

I knew I wasn't being unreasonable Grin

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Fuckoffunicorn · 11/04/2018 13:00

Music is only for young people don’t you know?

No age is too old to wear a band t-shirt. She can fuck off

Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 13:01

It was 1D TwitterQueen..

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Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 13:01

Thats a lie ^^^Grin

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LucilleBluth · 11/04/2018 13:04

ONLY if you are a fan of the band and know the music. No generic Rolling Stones or Ramones T shirts. That applies to any age. I went to a nice Italian restaurant last week with DH and friends in a Nirvana T shirt under a blazer.....I'm 37.

ThymeLord · 11/04/2018 13:06

You can't be too old for anything, IMO. Fuck the lot of 'em, life's too short.

BabloHoney · 11/04/2018 13:07

i get far more annoyed when my 23 year old step sister wears a Joy Division t-shirt despite never having heard a Joy Division album in her life ;)

TwitterQueen1 · 11/04/2018 13:07

Hmmm I'm on the fence OP - even though you have lied!!! I have been to a 1D concert (I took my DD and friends and mistakenly thought I had to go in to the concert with them). They were really good. I wouldn't wear that as it would be a bit motherly of me - it would need to be my era.

As a general rule I think the younger generation (I'm 50+) have absolutely no idea of how to have fun, they are all much too serious, so I would take every opportunity to wind them up.

Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 13:07

I was wearing a Blondie tshirt a few years ago. I came face to face with a teen wearing the exact same one. She obviously was scundered at some old woman wearing the same as her and loudly protested to her friends that I was waaay too old to be wearing it HmmGrin

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Pinkvoid · 11/04/2018 13:10

No way. I have a 66 year old student and he still rocks Hawkwind Tshirts Grin, I think it’s great!

Peanutbuttercups21 · 11/04/2018 13:10

LOL, DS was told he was too young to wear a band t-shirt Confused

Who ARE these people to make these kind of comments?! Angry ....

Grin
Doremisofarsogood · 11/04/2018 13:11

Band t-shirts are fine as long as you have actually heard and like the music - kids rolling stones t-shirts etc are not fine!

jaseyraex · 11/04/2018 13:11

Oh god, basically my whole wardrobe is either Disney or band shirts! I'm going to be buried in them. You're never too old for anything imo Grin

NameChangeAgainAndAgain · 11/04/2018 13:11

I agree with pp! ... a rock band from the 80s - ok! A pop band from now - not so cool! Justin Beeber or little mix type t shirts - a bit weird on a 50+ wink]

Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 13:11

Bablo, I was sitting looking at a group of teens once, but not really seeing them IYKWIM?
One boy had a Nirvana tshirt on and sarcastically said uhh its Nirvana, they're a band.
I happily informed him I had been backstage at one of their gigs once and Dave grohl felt my tit so to stuff his sarcasm.

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wtffgs · 11/04/2018 13:12

Firstly - I love scundered Grin

Secondly - why the actual fuck shouldn't you wear a band tshirt since you were actually alive and listening to Blondie in the 70s/80s?

VladmirsPoutine · 11/04/2018 13:12

She literally said "coco, you're far too old to be wearing that shirt"

Do you know her? What prompted this Confused

Cocolepew · 11/04/2018 13:18

Yes it's a woman I work with. I seem to annoy her by, well breathing Confused.
It comes up now and again that we should wear a uniform , I'm totally against it but she would love too.
A group of us were talking about it again in the staff room and she said well at least people could start dressing appropriate to their age, looking pointedly at me. I said what do you mean and she said you're too old to wear music tshirts.

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insancerre · 11/04/2018 13:24

Yanbu
49 is the perfect age to wear what you want and not care what people think

AtlantaGinandTonic · 11/04/2018 13:27

YAdefinitelyNBU! Rock that shirt, life is too short!

Wornoutbear · 11/04/2018 13:30

Wow - I'm in my 60s (how the hell did that happen?) and I still wear my Motorhead T shirts. My DH has a baseball cap from a Saxon tour that's older than several of the people he works with!

MadisonAvenue · 11/04/2018 13:32

YANBU!! I'm 49 in the Summer and still wear band tshirts and hoodies.

Though I'm still smarting at my mother telling me to grow up when I told her I was going to a gig when I was 34 Confused