To make him wash his own trousers

[Firstimefreaked]

Last night my OH went out it was the the 10th anniversary of the bar so the drinks were flowing free, I don't mind that he got super drunk if I wasn't BF with a young baby I would have loved it, however when he came back he informed me drunkenly he had peed his trousers I made him wipe himself down (too drunk to wash) and go to bed after inspecting his clothes he had sh*t himself royally it's a mess!!!

Do I bag it up and make him wash it when he comes back from work at 1pm even though he is warmed up death today?

What's the worse state your partners been in?

No sleepy, it was you that addressed me.

I never said who addressed who first, but you made an issue in that you didn't think someone should wash someone else's clothes. I said that it shouldn't be a big deal throwing in someone else's clothes other than your own. I don't understand why you think it's so wrong. It's hardly arduous to throw in someone else's stuff if there's room in the washer.

Ahh see now you’re changing the discussion. I never said it was wrong to throw in someone else stuff if there was room. If you’ve read my posts you’ll See that’s exactly what happens in my house.

No i said you THOUGHT it was wrong. If course you do because your words were "why are you washing his trousers anyway". So i'm not changing the discussion at all. It really shouldn't be a big deal, i'd just made the remark that why wouldn't you wash his trousers, (obviously not those ones.) Why you had to pursue an argument over this i don't know.

The majority of people in the country would do it, unless of course you didn't have a partner, but then there's no need to even bother pointing that out because it's obvious you wouldn't in that case.

No i said you THOUGHT it was wrong.

and again, clearly not, because it’s exactly what happens here.

your words were "why are you washing his trousers anyway"

No they weren’t. They were “why isn’t he washing his own trousers anyway” because why wouldn’t he be washing the trousers he shit in? Why on earth would OP be assuming that was her job to do unless the laundry is just her job all the time?

No you didn't mean that. The op had asserted that she normally does all the laundry, she wasn't asking about that, it was about the trousers he'd shit in. It was unaminous that she shouldn't. But you said "why isn't he washing his own trousers ANYWAY. Obviously the "anyway" implies that she shouldn't ever wash them, otherwise you wouldn't have worded it that way.

You seem to have some trouble reading but make up for it with more than your fair share of imagination. I’ll leave you to it. You seem happy enough in your own world anyway.

I'm not arguing any more. You made a clear statement, which frankly was ridiculous, just now you've actually retracted it by saying you meant something else. Fine, you must have realised how odd it was. I'm hiding the thread, you sound too childish to argue with. Go argue with yourself.

Even my housemates do shared washing loads haha. If you live with your do/the how would doing separate loads work? Would you have two wash baskets?
I think some posters are over texting, yes it's pretty horrible but it's a once off! My bf once threw up on himself when drunk and I washed his clothes, because it was a one off and I knew he would feel like shit the next day. If he did it repeatedly no way would I do it, but if it's one occasion then I don't think the reactions are justified.
Also I know of at leat 5 people who've shat themselves when drunk, it's not as rare an occasion as people on this thread think it is, thankfully have never shared a bed with any of them. No one ever tells others when they shit themselves so unless they were your dp you would'nt know.