It's a wedding one!
DP and I were invited to his close friend's wedding in May. We both booked the day off work and have just found out that the bride has de-invited us (and the majority of the groom's friends) from the ceremony to cut costs - but didn't scratch a single member of her family/friends off the guest list. For background, she's controlling and rather horrid in many ways (constantly badgers him to come home when he's out with friends - at 8:30!) They don't have kids.
So WIBU to just not go? I know how expensive weddings can be but deinviting your HTB's friends from the ceremony (without consulting him!) is so fucking rude?!