@SheGotBetteDavisEyes
You honestly don't see anything wrong with; 'oh well, I'm seen as a sexualised commodity, better make the most out of it then.'
No when I worked as a paid submissive. I didn't think that. I thought, I enjoy this lifestyle, I could stand to make some more money. I know I'll combine the two. I meet some very interesting people. Engaged in some very fulfilling scenes, and haven't regretted it once. I realise my experience is somewhat niche, I wasn't broadcasting what I did online, beyond advertising. There was no possibility of me being recorded without my knowledge or consent and it winding up on porn sites. It was on my terms, and there was no sexual inter course.
Not all women who do this are addicted to drugs, beaten by a boyfriend or a pimp, or being exploited. Some do actually enjoy it. I think you can't say "they are all exploited oh the horror" until you've taken the time to speak to every women in the industry.
Porn can be different, I'll admit. They want more extreme and more violent scenes. But that needs more policy.
Tbh, I think if your not gonna judge the men who do (and there are a few) this as harshly then your part of the problem.