DSD working as a cam girl

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How would you feel about it?

I went to an rg uni and was a cam girl.
I couldn't have lowered myself to work at Starbucks

They were your only two options? All the students are your university were either working at Starbucks or as strippers?

Nope, staying on my high horse. It's a grim way to earn money. The fact that you went to a university changes nothing.

Please make sure she stays safe. If she sells her phone number, make sure it's not her real one but a new one that can't be traced to her. Tell her to never ever do Skype shows, you can exploit Skype to find the IP address of anyone if you have their username (or at least you could in the past, maybe they fixed it now). Tell her to use a fake name, too, and I would suggest blocking UK IP addresses from accessing her room. Yes she will lose viewers (and those with vpn can still get around it), but likelihood of someone who knows her seeing it is greatly reduced. I would also suggest to use a site where nudity is only allowed past a paywall, reduces the likelihood of videos of her appearing, though of course anyone paying can still screen capture the whole thing. There's also a lot of youtube videos on this for advice and guidance.

I'm willing to bet you'll never return to this thread and it'll be like every other one you've started and never come back to. The advice is always the same and yet here you are. I

Theres definitely a pattern isn't there 😒

It was the right choice for me.
The men and women that used my cam paid me well.

I left debt free and with no regrets.

I wasn't the only one doing it.

Would I be happy if my daughter/son did it? Depends on who she/he is, their reasoning and strength but it's essentially their choice.

I've also been recognised.

They were far more embarrassed when they realised where from.

There's only one way they would know me from that world

Then you are naive if you think that being recognised does not matter

Yawn

Well it depends.

1. Is she of age and doing it if her own volition? If not I wouldn't of be calling the police.

1. Is she likely to make anything of herself? If she is bright and ambitions then this could ruin her future career/social life/opportunities to get married and start a family. If she's stupid/lazy/hopeless then it's unlikely to do her any harm and hey-at least she is doing work if some kind.

Pretty shitty. It’s one up on a prozzie though so be grateful for that.

At least it’s your DSD, not DD.

I don’t moralise about other women’s career choices, especially when they are none of my business.

As long as she isn’t being coerced, what she is doing is legal, and nobody is being hurt, how she chooses to earn a living is a matter for her.

So you have no opinion at all about what your children do to earn money? Go abroad to fight, be a Dr, have sex for money, work in a shop - its all the same to you?

In the real world most parents do care what their kids do. They want them to have more than performing sex acts on the internet for strangers to wank over.

If it was my dd I’d feel awful and assume I had completely failed at raising a strong, self respecting woman. I would do everything in my power to get her to see what impact it could have on her and to get her to stop it.

Not much you can do as it’s your dsd sadly.

These threads always go differently from the 'what would you think if your child joined the Conservatives?' type threads where it is apparently perfectly appropriate to judge your children's moral decisions.

Don’t believe you NC17.i don’t think one studying a professional degree is/was in sex work
You’ll know,professional careers demand high standard behaviour.and internet is like forever
do you have a professional registration to maintain,a career that could be compromised
So A police caution,an anonymous email to your prof registration and career likely harmed
Of course,you’ll insist this is true.maybe regale me with you know a solictor/doctor/teacher who is was sex worker

That is because people lie on these threads hosta

Haha, I sort of hope you're right, crunchy!

Unsure why people seem to think no professional degree holders have done this. I know a woman who studied at Oxford and now has a successful academic career, who lapdanced through her first degree. Not my cup of tea but if she is of legal age, committing no crime, and is not a vulnerable adult, then live and let live in my book.

Note that the OP hasn't returned.

OP, yohoo, where are yooouuu?

Unsure why people seem to think no professional degree holders have done this.

Has anyone implied that?

The oxbridge lap dancing/escort/stripper/web cam worker. Well it’s a big enough urban myth

I think for the few who actually done lap dancing/escort/stripper/web cam worker.there’s a bus load who’ll claim yea they know someone who does/did this
Adds to the narrative of happy & empowered sex worker.just loves it

Apparently many men like women doing this to claim they are doing a degree. Sick fucks.

I'd be extremely disappointed if it was my DD. Not being a blood relative of a stepdaughter, I'd be less disappointed.

I think it's interesting how men who look at cam girls are flammed...yet the actual girls stripping off for total strangers aren't.

"It's their choice "She's an adult" "It's not illegal

All true..
and the same statements apply to the man watching them.

The OP rarely comes back to her threads

Note that the OP hasn't returned.

OP, yohoo, where are yooouuu?

She never does. There was a whole restaurant saga, another flat-buying one, a bridesmaid one, a DSD teenage pregnancy one - and those are just the ones I remember without ASing Same MO. Something controversial in the OP and then nowt.