Boyfriend won't leave MY house

[FirstTimeMama18]

I have told my boyfriend to leave my house and he's refusing. I own the house outright myself.

We have an 8 week old DD and he has a DS from previous relationship. Our relationship has been very whirlwind, fell pregnant very quickly etc. We have done nothing but argue since I gave birth and I have had enough. Too much stress and don't feel supported.

I asked him to leave last night, he did but came back this morning and is refusing to leave now. His son is with him, he's sitting on my sofa smirking telling me he's going no where and to call the police.. I don't want police at my door.

He pays me £400 towards bills but like I said, I own my home outright. Do I have to give him notice to leave? How do I get him to leave without calling the police?

Agree, call the police,get the locks changed when he leaves
And sorry you’re going through all this aggro

Id just like to add. Call the police.
He's not your boyfriend anymore. You dumped him.
He has no business being there.

Stop feeling responsible... he is banking on that! Basically he is telling you that as you have his kid he can own you.. and anything that is yours! Yes, it is controlling, he is a bully!

He has no rights to your house. You have told him to leave, so he is now trespassing... so call the police.

Personally I would cry and tell the police he was scaring me... but I am old and cynical and have little patience with men who use women.

Call the police.

When ExH me I separated, he went to stay with a friend. 2 months later friend booted him out due to his behaviour and he decided to come here drunk as all Hell kicking off, demanding to be let in. The house is mine, (rented in my name only) he thought he had a right to live here. The police calmly informed that he didn’t, and when he refused to leave my front garden, they removed him for me.

Police, preferably 101. Imagine showing up with your son - he should have SS involved for dragging his son into the drama intentionally

And don’t worry they won’t show up with their alarms on. If you ask them they may be able to send ones dressed in civvies

Call the police.
Change the locks.
Tell him if he wants to see the baby HE sorts out a contact centre.
Sort your social media out so he can’t see it.
Call a friend.
Cuddle baby 💐

Do NOT take him back no matter what he promises.

Call the police to remove him. Take it as a lesson learned.

Call the Police and get rid of him.

Then in future choose your men more carefully.

I agree. Call the police. Also is there anyone else you can call to come round for support? Father, brother, sister, mum, friend?

Call the police. He's bullying you, but he actually has no rights. He's banking on you being weak enough to back down.

The fact that your DD is his, is no reason to let him stay.

Please call the police and let us know you're safe!

If he gives you £400 a month, doesn't that make him a tenant/lodger with some rights? Afaik, he could say the £400 is rent and even if there is no contract he has a tenancy.
Call the police in any case

I know you don’t want the police there but it’s the only way to make him leave.

Just call the police! Why on earth wouldn't you? Are you wanted?

Call the police and get him removed for God's sake woman!

Lauren Him giving OP 400 a month doesn't give him rights.

You had a relationship with him and have a baby together. Has he somewhere to go with his son? Can't you discuss a timetable for him to leave like adults?

Could you get some people round to support you to get him out?

Good idea. The police will do that.

Call the police, bag his shit up, change the locks, get onto the CMS for maintenance. Job done.

Hopefully you've already done this, but CALL THE POLICE.

So will he have to go to work tomorrow? Any chance he HAS to leave the house?