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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Not to wear knickers in bed?

402 replies

Vulpius · 20/02/2018 10:56

Not a thread about a thread, as such, but I was very struck by someone on another thread talking about her old bed kickers (as in knickers she wears in bed, not as in knickers worn by her bed). I would have thought it was thoroughly unreasonable to wear knickers of any description in bed (unless they are the type that leads to Things), but AIBU?

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PippiLongstromp · 20/02/2018 12:19

I am astonished at how many sleep without knickers on! Just cannot relate to that. For me it's so uncomfortable and cold with nothing on. Whoever said it was unhygienic with knickers on - if anything it's the other way around surely, you are rubbing your genitals around on the sheets! Nothing wrong with that. But it is not unhygienic to wear a clean pair of pants to bed.

PsychoPumpkin · 20/02/2018 12:20

ilostit I know, it only wanted to share our bed and ended up in pieces where no spider ever wants to be!

Funnily enough, my husband wears pants to bed now!

Chowmum · 20/02/2018 12:20

Vulpius I think it was your "very unreasonable" comment that threw me off.
Carry on then (hnar hnar). I can fully understand the paperwork avoidance tactic.

PsychoPumpkin · 20/02/2018 12:21

Sorry OP! Grin

Titsywoo · 20/02/2018 12:23

Nope i like to give my vag a good airing overnight Grin. I go to bed naked. I have a good duvet so don't find it cold.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 20/02/2018 12:23

Are people rubbing their genitals around on the sheets though Pippi?
I've never found myself doing that.

happymummy12345 · 20/02/2018 12:24

I never wear anything in bed, except during my withdrawal bleed, I wear old knickers.
I hate wearing anything in bed.

MrsKoala · 20/02/2018 12:27

Michael - i can't understand how anyone could wear jama bottoms with no pants. They are loose and as you roll around get all gathered up and go up the crevices.I can't understand how people wear knickers with seams up the front either. My Mum does and bought me some and i couldn't walk as the seam went right up the front and rubbed. I must have really sensitive labs!

MrsKoala · 20/02/2018 12:29

I'd defo need to wash my sheets more if i didn't wear pants. We have dark coloured sheets and it shows if i sit on them sans knicks.

Roomba · 20/02/2018 12:31

Not only do I usually wear knickers in bed, I also wear thick fleece pyjamas and the last couple of months a dressing gown (even a cardigan too on one or two nights)! Not forgetting the hot water bottle at my feet. It's bloody freezing in my bedroom - biggest room in the house, smallest radiator. I can't abide waking up because my arms or legs are cold.

Never had thrush once in my life, so I'll carry on as I am with my extremely sexy nightwear Grin

ThisIsTheRealMe · 20/02/2018 12:32

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PistFump · 20/02/2018 12:35

But what would I stick my tenna lady to?!!

Roomba · 20/02/2018 12:36

MrsKoala I completely agree about knickers with seams like that. Hideously uncomfortable. Also they rub on my c section scars. I chucked a pack away that my mum bought me as I just couldn't wear them (yes, for some bizarre reason I am 41 and my mother still puts new socks and knickers in my Christmas stocking, maybe she thinks I am too young to be buying my own pants from M&S Grin).

RadicalFern · 20/02/2018 12:38

I'm laughing still about the idea of knickers worn by one's bed.

SaskaTchewan · 20/02/2018 12:42

ThisIsTheRealMe
why don't you join your little friends on the other forum to discuss that?

HoppingPavlova · 20/02/2018 12:45

After having kids you would not want to see the state of my bed if I didn’t wear knickers, now that would be unhygienic. I wear knickers and a large pad every night. Doesn’t cause any issues health wise, never had a problem in this regard.

Blobby10 · 20/02/2018 12:46

I wear something to bed - it started when my babies came along and I had an irrational fear of a fire breaking out overnight and the valuable seconds I would waste putting on clothes instead of rescuing my babies - this fear closely followed by the nightmare thought of having to climb down a ladder with only a t shirt on !! Somehow wearing something on my bottom half made me slightly more rational!

PickAChew · 20/02/2018 12:47

Why does it matter to you what other people wear in bed? Wrap yourself in bacon, for all I care.

HoppingPavlova · 20/02/2018 12:48

To all of the people saying they could never imagine wearing undies to bed etc, what do you do when you have your period? Surely the chance of TSS from a tampon overnight is riskier than whatever you think undies will do to you?

NachoAddict · 20/02/2018 12:51

I am another one that needs to wee several times of night if I don't wear knickers. Budge up on the bench @FrissionChips

That and the fear of spiders up my fanny means I have big cotton belly warmers for bed.

WhatInTheWorldIsGoingOn · 20/02/2018 12:55

PJ’s no kecks here. HTH

FabbyChix · 20/02/2018 12:56

I never wear knickers in or out of bed, but I do wear PJs

alpineibex · 20/02/2018 12:58

PJs or nightie without knickers for me.

Louiselouie0890 · 20/02/2018 12:58

I do a bit of both. Dont really think about it but I know when im not wearing any I think what if there's a fire or a burglar. Wonder what I'd do lol

Vulpius · 20/02/2018 12:59

ThisIsTheRealMe: no, I am not a troll. Are you? I am someone who should be ringing her accountant and can't face it.

PickAChew, I can't say that it matters immensely. It's just one of those random thoughts that assail me when I should be doing something more useful.

MrsKoala, the perils dark coloured sheets had not crossed my mind. Hmm.

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