To have been quite shocked by my friend and think this was really bad manners

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I was having dinner with my friend and her two year old DS. We both ordered salmon and the dish came with new potatoes and peas. The portions were quite large so there was a bit of fussing as Webb ‘donated’ some food to DS for his dinner.

Oh worra, do keep up, we have gone through this.

Op is a fat fucker and did not fancy flinging salmon and potatoes around.

Worra feels pleased with herself she’s not a fat fucker like the OP.

Friend probably feels the same way.

All is well in fat fucker land.

Did you eat the extra food ?

See above.

Did you post that in the wrong nickname?

Sorry if I made the mortal sin of not reading the whole thread.

Still I'm pretty sure no-one expected you to start 'flinging food around'.

Post what in the wrong nickname? What are you talking about?

Well you're talking about 'the OP' as though they're someone else?

I give up. I'm going to open the wine.

Still, hopefully you enjoyed your meal.

I was speaking about myself in the third person, which I thought was clear. In future, just let me know if you’re having trouble with comprehension.

To be fair, you'd be the last person I'd ask if I was

Well, there you go, it appears we feel the same way about one another.

Am very very lost in this and feel must have missed many posts! Wine for me too!

Apart from being a 'heifer' you also seem like a rude cow.
You and your friend are perfect for each other!

I may have misjudged you OP. I feel challenged in a way I haven't been all day. I may even go back back and rtft from the beginning.

I think a previous poster was right and that this friend was in automatic mum mode. If she's used to being with kids she probably forgot herself.

Slightly off topic (mainly because I don’t understand the aibu) but what is Ikea salmon like? I kind of fancied it today but had meatballs instead (again). If I didn’t like it I would have probably plonked it all on DP’a plate. At least I know I like the meatballs but getting a tad fed up with them now

Does she have anxiety around loads of food on plate? My df would.be a bit like this and tries to pass stuff sideways. I get her an extra plate now

Jesus, OP, are you usually this rude??

Did we ever find out who Webb is? I can’t be arsed to RTFT

Ooh nothing worse than a greedy girl who's cross with herself eh OP?

You ate the food. Therein lies the problem.

I KNEW it was IKEA.
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Well this is a tad confusing.

I think what happened is.

Big portions provided.
Some given to child.
Too much food still.
Friend gave op more without asking,
Op ate it
Op now pissed at friend for giving it in the first place.
Op feels its friends fault she ate it. Because she feels she should not have put it on her plate without asking,
Op wishes others to agree.
Op does not address if the food was left over if she'd have eaten it anyway.

Well I think it was a rude thing to do and I would find I very off putting. I am not particularly overweight nor on a diet but I would still object quite strongly if someone took it upon themselves to pile stuff on my plate without asking.

Quite often when we are out and I feel I have too much on my plate I ask DH if he would like some. But I would never just dump it on him without asking.

So op ate the food and is mad at herself?

I really like the creamy dill sauce that comes with the salmon

Yes - your ‘friend’ sounds rude and annoying.