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To think we should all be paying attention to the facts about Andi Dier (Rose McGowan)?

182 replies

CAAKE · 03/02/2018 22:46

Yes, another trans thread so I know many of you will automatically say I am BU. But this is important, I promise.

Rose McGowan was involved in what can be politely called a "verbal exchange" with an aggressive and antagonistic transwoman at a book signing last week. Rose retaliated verbally and the person was removed from the building. You can watch it here:

twitter.com/popcrave/status/959218557946155008

Or just google/YouTube "Rose McGowan Barnes and Noble".

The person shouting at Rose (while she was reading from her new book about the rape and abuse she has experienced at the hands of male predators) has been identified as Andi Dier, a trans activist and campaigner. Rose is suffering a huge backlash; various venues have publicly stated that they are pulling bookings for future book tour dates citing her transphobic views. Consequently, she has now cancelled all remaining public appearances.

It has come to light that Andi Dier has a history of sexual assault with minors; young women have come forward saying Andi assaulted them at the age of 12/13/14. In addition, this Twitter thread details some of the paedophilic, fetishistic pornographic content Andi has posted online.

Warning ⚠️
This twitter link contains pornographic content that may be very upsetting to some. It is most certainly NSFW!!
twitter.com/mermaidradfem/status/959874205209776128

AIBU to think that all kinds of people, everywhere, should be alarmed that such a vile, abusive person has been able to get away with publicly attacking Rose, who precipitated the downfall of Weinstein and who was the first spark of the #MeToo movement?

OP posts:
CorbynTrouserPress · 04/02/2018 09:22

Just what are we as a society blindly walking in to, whether willingly or complicity?

The transaged at the very least. There are already fetish communities for people that play at being children.

In Chicago a 38 year old paedophile claimed to be 9 at the time he assaulted 6 and 8 year old girls:

www.truthrevolt.org/news/38-year-old-pedophile-claims-he-likes-kids-because-hes-trans-age

On the back of self-ID for gender comes what? A place where biological facts have no place in law, criminal reporting or safeguarding?

sexnotgender · 04/02/2018 09:24

I think it’s important to distinguish between the true trans community and this new lunacy.

Their are many trans people quietly going about their lives who wouldn’t in a month of Sunday’s behave like this, they need our support and love.

The other lot? I wouldn’t piss on if they were on fire.

blackberryfairy · 04/02/2018 09:25

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maxthemartian · 04/02/2018 09:29

I just looked at the Pink News fb feed. The comments... people enthusiastically trashing a rape survivor to side with a sexual predator.
Nothing new under the sun, just in a fucking frock

Datun · 04/02/2018 09:34

The whole point of women's objection is that men and women are different.

Something that transitioning doesn't change. Women are still subject to their biology and the treatment according to them on its basis. Treatment, propagated largely, by men.

This tactic of men forcing women to deny that difference, in order to control them and the narrative, is at the very heart of the discussion.

And when women refuse to do it, however polite they are, it infuriates them.

Rose called that man sister and said yes, transwomen are women.

It's not enough, because it didn't lead to her being dominated by him.

So he immediately, and instinctively, ups the ante.

Which failed. Quite spectacularly.

Any kickback is seen as transphobic. In other words 'a woman who won't be controlled'.

It's interesting that they spend so much time trying to prove transwomen and women are exactly the same.

But one of the biggest differences between men and women, the fact that men can dominate women, is utilised at every turn.

They are totally reliant on this difference, to force us to pretend we're the same.

mustbemad17 · 04/02/2018 09:35

I wonder how many people have woken up after this incident & thought 'shit, this isn't quite what I thought it was' - I have.

I consider myself very open minded, I have no problem with anybody based on their sexuality or the gender they perceive themselves to be. Very much live & let live. Watching this vile outburst at Rose has made me take a huge step back & rethink the whole trans movement thing. That cretin of a man has, imo, done no other transgender person any favours because he was trying to segregate trans women into their own sub-category. For ages I assumed that actually trans women wanted to be considered as women, with no questions, no special honours, just equally treated the way myself & my daughter are treated. His rant blew that right out of the window!!

I too find it disgusting that the trans community are defending him & berating Rose, especially given his disgusting past of violence against women & children!! Hello, this person is one of the reasons women don't feel safe walking the streets; violent predator masquerading as something he isn't & getting away with it. Just what we need.

I like Rose, & I like what she has set out to do. I hope she takes time out & comes back punching harder.

athingthateveryoneneeds · 04/02/2018 09:35

sexnotgender this has been said over and over again in ever single trans thread I've ever read on mumsnet. We still get people accusing us of transphobia. Hmm

I for one am tired of prefacing every comment with NATALT. The TRA/MRA contingent are not worth the effort.

PencilsInSpace · 04/02/2018 09:38

I think it’s important to distinguish between the true trans community and this new lunacy.

So do I.

Which is why the proposal to change the gender recognition act so that anybody can legally change sex simply by filling in and signing a form is so incredibly dangerous. We would no longer be able to distinguish. Any man at all could legally become a woman purely on their own say so.

nolurkynolighty · 04/02/2018 09:39

But one of the biggest differences between men and women, the fact that men can dominate women, is utilised at every turn.

datun you nailed the paradox there (i don't think i can do bold though?)

this is worse than an episode of Black Mirror. a right wing MRA movement dressed up in liberal sheep's clothing.

nolurkynolighty · 04/02/2018 09:40

oh correction, i can do bold! Smile

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 04/02/2018 09:40

Actually maybe it was good thing that Rose was attacked by Andi. Her celeb friends will see how ridiculous it is and how little it takes to be labelled transphone and will publicly stand up to this shit:

SimonBridges · 04/02/2018 09:41

Also yet again, the hypocrisy of the movement is shown up. Apparently 'transwomen are women'. Yet Rose was talking about 'women'and this was not good enough, suddenly 'transwomen' had to be a seperate entity and had to be centred when whatever they experience is fuck all to do with Rose

Exactly this.
If transwomen are women then that is what she is talking about. You can’t have it both ways.

This is just white men who are annoyed because no one is looking at them.

SimonBridges · 04/02/2018 09:47

I notice that the people who usually rock up on these threads and call us Terfs are very quiet

mustbemad17 · 04/02/2018 09:48

Can someone tell me what a TERF is please? I don't usually comment on these threads, as I said above my mindset is considerably knocked now!

athingthateveryoneneeds · 04/02/2018 09:52

Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 04/02/2018 09:52

trans exlusionary radical feminist
Some using it as an insult. I’d rather be a terf than cis though.

mustbemad17 · 04/02/2018 09:53

What's a cis 😱 Dear god apparently I have somehow ignored the wider issues around this. Definitely need to reevaluate my life views

Elendon · 04/02/2018 09:57

The terms TERF, Transphobia and Bigot are now synonymous.

You are scum of the earth if you dare question or debate now. Even transsexuals are called these terms.

YreneTowers · 04/02/2018 09:58

Cis just means someone who identifies as their birth gender doesn't it? I.e. not transferable.

ladyballs · 04/02/2018 09:58

@mustbemad apparently we now need a word to differentiate actual women from transwomen. So 'cis'.

They can stick cis up their arses.

YreneTowers · 04/02/2018 09:59

Trans. Sorry - it autocorrected!

athingthateveryoneneeds · 04/02/2018 10:01

If I get this wrong, I apologise.

The word "woman" has become a sort of umbrella term, with trans women being a subset rather than a separate group. (Trans women are women, see?) This mindset creates subgroups of lesbian women, BAME women, disabled women, etc.

Cis women are just women. Adult human females. But by labelling them as part of a subgroup of the umbrella term "woman" the TRAs get to redefine the word itself, "other" females in general, and take over women's spaces and groups.

Elendon · 04/02/2018 10:01

Cis is a term of abuse used by those who also use TERF, transphobic and Bigot.

Cis is mean't to distinguish between transwomen and women, even though they claim transwomen are women. Logic has no discourse with TRAs and their supporters.

Lazylouse · 04/02/2018 10:01

One of the first posts on that mermaidradfem Twitter link in the OP is someone calling transphobia for the use of "he". It doesn't matter how vile or abusive a person he is, we must all be polite and call him by his preferred pronouns. Fuck this shit!

Elendon · 04/02/2018 10:04

One of the tweets I read was they may have done horrible and vile things but please don't misgender them. I don't know whether they are being serious or ironic.

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