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To think we should all be paying attention to the facts about Andi Dier (Rose McGowan)?

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CAAKE · 03/02/2018 22:46

Yes, another trans thread so I know many of you will automatically say I am BU. But this is important, I promise.

Rose McGowan was involved in what can be politely called a "verbal exchange" with an aggressive and antagonistic transwoman at a book signing last week. Rose retaliated verbally and the person was removed from the building. You can watch it here:

twitter.com/popcrave/status/959218557946155008

Or just google/YouTube "Rose McGowan Barnes and Noble".

The person shouting at Rose (while she was reading from her new book about the rape and abuse she has experienced at the hands of male predators) has been identified as Andi Dier, a trans activist and campaigner. Rose is suffering a huge backlash; various venues have publicly stated that they are pulling bookings for future book tour dates citing her transphobic views. Consequently, she has now cancelled all remaining public appearances.

It has come to light that Andi Dier has a history of sexual assault with minors; young women have come forward saying Andi assaulted them at the age of 12/13/14. In addition, this Twitter thread details some of the paedophilic, fetishistic pornographic content Andi has posted online.

Warning ⚠️
This twitter link contains pornographic content that may be very upsetting to some. It is most certainly NSFW!!
twitter.com/mermaidradfem/status/959874205209776128

AIBU to think that all kinds of people, everywhere, should be alarmed that such a vile, abusive person has been able to get away with publicly attacking Rose, who precipitated the downfall of Weinstein and who was the first spark of the #MeToo movement?

OP posts:
athingthateveryoneneeds · 04/02/2018 08:11

YANBU.

YADDDDDDNBU.

Thank you for making this thread.

Yes, another trans thread, but these are the people advising our government and schools!! This needs to be discussed. #nomorenodebate #transwomenaremen

Greensmurfterf · 04/02/2018 08:14

Andi should not be taken out of the trans debate neither should the likes of Travis Albanza, who has a thing for 15 year old girls and is desperate to get into Topshop's female changing rooms.

Society is allowing sexual predators to hide in plain sight and gain access to their chosen victims because they are aligning themselves with a marginal group i.e. trans.

Abracadabraapileofbollocks · 04/02/2018 08:16

Rose did not lose it. She asserted HER platform to discuss HER experienced and someone who rejects the validity of HER voice took issue with it. She did not put forward anti trans, nor pro trans. She spoke about what she knows. The Women's March and these cancelled book talks are showing their fear and unwillingness to give women a platform.

SophoclesTheFox · 04/02/2018 08:22

I felt absolutely sick looking at those links, CAAKE. I can’t believe that we’re so far down the rabbit hole with this shit now that it goes:

woman says something completely factual (transwomen and women have different experiences)
male takes exception to this and broods on it for a number of months
woman gives talk on her sexual abuse and how she was disbelieved about it.
man yells at her for not caring about something irrrlevant to what she’s actually saying
she stands up for herself
people are falling all over themselves to fault her for her behaviour, and she gets no platformed and abused
the male turns out to have at best, very very problematic sexual tastes, and at worse to be a sexual abuser
his defenders, apparently without ANY trace of irony, are happy to conclude that any girl who says she was his victim is probably lying about sexual assault.

It’s truly Orwellian.

MaureenNervosa · 04/02/2018 08:29

Another one angry about how Rose MacGowan has been treated. I actually think it's frightening that these activists are trying to silence her for speaking out about her own experiences. How the fuck is being raped and scared by Hollywood producers 'biological privilege'? Biological oppression and now it's continuing from another nasty angle.

MaureenNervosa · 04/02/2018 08:30

No 'actually' about it, tbh, it IS frightening.

Greensmurfterf · 04/02/2018 08:34

I saw a tweet along the lines of being grateful for biological privilege as it meant you could have an abortion and a trans woman couldn't! (I'm sure someone more savvy than me will find it).

No doubt in my mind that Rose was set up.

Humphriescushion · 04/02/2018 08:42

Not on twitter and not great with social media but is there any way we can show our support for her? I have been lurking on these threads and have been educated so thank you all and especially the feminist topic here.

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 04/02/2018 08:42

Do the venues that cancelled on her book signings know they sided with a sexual predator? Harry weinstein - take a note - pop a dress on and everyone will blame the nasty cis women that made you assault them.

MountainsofMars · 04/02/2018 08:44

Just what are we as a society blindly walking in to, whether willingly or complicity?

It’s shocking, isn’t it?

But being a cynical old feminist, ‘twas ever thus. Was it Germaine Greer who said, back in the 70s, that women can’t afford to recognise just how much men hate them?

#IstandwithRose

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 04/02/2018 08:44

greensmurf human males ultimate dream - being able to terminate the child they dpn’t want - of course they’re jealous of abortion!

SophoclesTheFox · 04/02/2018 08:48

No space at all in the venn diagram of opinion on abortion between a TRA and and MRA there. Women’s control of our bodies makes men angry and upset. Meet the new boss, same as the old boss Hmm

Greensmurfterf · 04/02/2018 08:48

It's all so depressing DrinkFeck.

diddlemethis · 04/02/2018 08:53

Shhhhh, you can't talk about this, Andy Dyer is one of the sissy, cross dressing men who fetishise dressing as a woman, and HE DEFINITELY DOESNT EXIST, he's just in the imagination of those penis obsessed crazy TERFS.... THERE IS NOTHING TO SEE HERE.

MrMeSeeks · 04/02/2018 08:55

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Datun · 04/02/2018 08:56

What a disgusting individual he is.

"It's not rape if they're smiling through the tears".

mobile.twitter.com/confirmedturf/status/959621831949864960

ClaryFray · 04/02/2018 08:57

If your trans you can get away with being a twat. He sounds like an awful man. I hope he's caught up with for the child porn too!

diddlemethis · 04/02/2018 08:57

I really don't think Rose will take this lying down. She brought down Weinstein, she started the domino, she's not going to let an angry man with a documented online history of abuse silence her.

TellsEveryoneRealFacts · 04/02/2018 08:59

Interestingly, I responded to Andi directly yesterday expecting to be pounced upon by his followers, and for the first time ever I've had no comeback. And that is directly on his twitter, several times.

I hope the people that have been assaulted and raped by him do report it and he gets put away, in a male prison. It didn't take long for people to find the evidence against him for his perversions.

WhooooAmI24601 · 04/02/2018 09:02

I've looked at the Twitter link and it's just revolting. Growing up in the 80's and being told "women can do anything", watching strong, intelligent women in the media means I almost lived in a bit of a bubble as a teen, thinking women my age had everything and could be everything. It's bullshit, though.

There's no modern society where women are equal to men. There's no revolution. It's exactly like it was, just better hidden and even more deceitful.

badabing36 · 04/02/2018 09:13

Looking at Rose’s Twitter now, the vast majority of people are saying you’re still in the wrong, no matter what AD has done in the past- it makes me feel so sorry for her that she has to put up with this shit.

Her previous ‘transphobic’ comments were that trans women have not been adolescent girls, they haven’t experienced what it’s like to grow breasts and hips, and then get screamed at in the street because of that- wtf? The truth is sooooo transphobic.

I seriously need to take an internet break.

Elendon · 04/02/2018 09:17

This article explains the background to Rose McGowan's anger.

www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/harvey-weinsteins-army-of-spies

mntrollhunter · 04/02/2018 09:19

www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/

For if anyone wants a place to talk about this stuff.

diddlemethis · 04/02/2018 09:20

I really hope this is public enough for the tide to turn, for people to understand that Trans is an umbrella term, that there are gender dysmorphic people who need support, but there are also cross dressing fetishists who are grim.

And that these people shouldn't be lumped together under the "trans" umbrella. It is hugely problematic and offensive to the former, as well as women.

sexnotgender · 04/02/2018 09:20

YADNBU, I hope this shit helps other people get to peaktrans.

I also hope that Rose has some kind, trustworthy people looking after her.

The trans activist community should be ashamed of themselves however I don’t think shame is in their vocabulary.

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