Thank you faith
I have worked in industry dominated by Tory people and many of my in-laws are extremely right of centre, I get along with them easily, though my wife's cousin thinks I am the closest thing to a communist she has ever met. Her Husband, Tory councillor and son paid member of local tory party called me the red in the bed.
I am actually very easy going, most of our friends and relatives are brexiiter's and all presume so am I. I don't talk about it, they are dear friends and I lost enough people I care about is it is.
Elton I know why she was adopted, Her mum was disabled and her grandma had a brain tumour, because her mum was ill she on numerous occasions missed her pip/benefits appointments and was sanctioned, no money no food. Gran died in her sleep, mum could get out of her bed, needed granny to help her, little girl who is deaf and has development issues was left on her own. No money sanctioned week before, and her mum died in bed, no home help our council cut help 2013, CUTS, and no other family, school holidays, Easter Thank god not summer, no child at school, key work rang home no answer, she sent police. Girl found unconscious on floor, lived off water and bread for 9 days before it ran out. I believe she would have died a day later. Not really her mum's fault.
I've had a shit week funeral, meeting this little girl (She's amazing) waiting on possible wife cancer referral, delayed due to winter pressures today for another 2 weeks that 8 now. Son yesterday had to remove tongue of a fellow team player who swallow it and another lad on opposition may have broken is back, freak accident. Plus lack of sleep due to emergencies at work.
I think I may be doing something wrong on here, or even don't belong really, I was accused of being aggressive on a higher education thread, so I think I am going to leave mumsnet now, I am sorry but I only have had a CSE education, and trying to help my boys and their friends escape the confines of their home city via education brought me, accidently to mumsnet, I Google an article and it lead to here, I lurked for years. Scared to post. Then some one posted about Lord Adonis and private schools and I tried to explain Hull and surrounding areas schools.
I wished I hadn't, I try to only post on things I know about, or things we as a family have experienced. MY son will be first to go university in either immediate family, we are clueless and school is close to special measures lurking on here as helped. But I daren't start a thread or now reply, I am sorry, I enjoyed talking/debating I learn stuff, but you're scarily intelligent and my debating skills are clearly shit.
If I think of anything helpful I may add to the thread, but I feel bruised and deflated, and out of my depth, so sorry for the long post, please continue.