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To make my bf wait hours for his blind date

567 replies

RedTartanLass · 04/01/2018 12:17

Ok so I've not been on here for years ...... but I'm raging. My bf has been behaving suspiciously so I checked online and right enough the wanker has a POF profile!

So I catfished him and we're meeting today at 12:30 ..... well he thinks we are ... I'm not turning up. Want to see how long I can make him wait!

If you're in Swindon feel free to give him a wave!!

Am I being unreasonable to make him wait a couple of hours. Will I be able to drag it out that long .....

OP posts:
Namechangetempissue · 04/01/2018 18:45

Wow, good for you! Hope this new date is great fun AND a decent bloke. Have a wonderful time. Hope horrible knob head cheat catches crabs Star🕷

hmcAsWas · 04/01/2018 18:46

I like your style OP - particularly since he will never know why he has been ghosted, torture for him!

crackerjacket · 04/01/2018 18:48

Crikey you move fast red, good for you.

Totally ageist I know but I cant believe someone 53 would act like that?!

Surely you get more respectable as you age? Apparently not, Bridget.

Aeroflotgirl · 04/01/2018 18:49

Wow 53, I thought he was 23, the way he was acting. Your well over him.

marywasneeavirgin · 04/01/2018 18:50

Good luck for tomorrow x

MrsMozart · 04/01/2018 19:00

RedTartenLass I like your style I do. Good on you. Hope tomorrow goes well!

EvilDoctorHogmanayDuck · 04/01/2018 19:05

I've done it! Thanks Gravel. Xmas Grin

AmaraSas · 04/01/2018 19:05

Curious? How do you connect on whatsapp without phone numbers? I am really curious because i am always dubious about giving my phone number to connect on elwhatsapp and if theres a way of doing it without would make life so much easier!

EvilDoctorHogmanayDuck · 04/01/2018 19:10

A big dump is the only privacy I get.

debbs77 · 04/01/2018 19:10

I had assumed a guy of late 30s/early 40s!!

MrsGB2225 · 04/01/2018 19:14

Wish you could PM us his username so we could all catfish him.

EvilDoctorHogmanayDuck · 04/01/2018 19:16

Well done ginger 🏆

MyAuntyBadger · 04/01/2018 19:17

I don't think you can AmaraSas , op contacted him through POF as the date, and WhatsApp as herself.

EvilDoctorHogmanayDuck · 04/01/2018 19:20

Good plan if it was, ginger Xmas Grin

werewolfhowls · 04/01/2018 19:21

Wow you're a legend. I like the get back on the horse attitude, best of luck

IndieTara · 04/01/2018 19:24

Op you are my hero

CeeCeeEnnEss · 04/01/2018 19:27

Hope you’re ok after everything that’s happened. You’re a strong woman, and an inspiration!

pollythedolly · 04/01/2018 19:29

What a gal.

Keep that positive vibe OP x

Aridane · 04/01/2018 19:29

On the Penguin thread some posters have linked, why have all the OP’s posts been deleted?

SchoolMoney · 04/01/2018 19:42

Aridane when the penguin thread took off the thread was the first thing that came up when you googled the place. If I'm remembering right the OP had posts deleted because penguindick could have found her based on that.

dustarr73 · 04/01/2018 19:44

Well you could always go on a double date op.

Missmee2010 · 04/01/2018 19:48

What is the penguin post .. am new sorry

RedTartanLass · 04/01/2018 19:55

@MrsGB222 As I sit in my cold car waiting to pick up DD, that is one of the lovely revenges going through my head! Giving out his POF username and him being inundated with mumsnetters asking for date! Bu No .... I won't do that. I don't want him to know it was me. Let it bother him the rest of his dating "career". Every date he has from now on, he'll be nervous of being stood up!

Do feel a wee bit guilty about date tomorrow, should I officially dump my ex, before meeting this new guy?

OP posts:
Bobbiepin · 04/01/2018 19:55

Op you fucking legend. The knob deserves everything coming to him!

Bobbiepin · 04/01/2018 19:56

Don't bother dumping him. I wouldn't normally advocate it but the knob deserves to be ghosted.