To make my bf wait hours for his blind date

[RedTartanLass]

Ok so I've not been on here for years ...... but I'm raging. My bf has been behaving suspiciously so I checked online and right enough the wanker has a POF profile!

So I catfished him and we're meeting today at 12:30 ..... well he thinks we are ... I'm not turning up. Want to see how long I can make him wait!

If you're in Swindon feel free to give him a wave!!

Am I being unreasonable to make him wait a couple of hours. Will I be able to drag it out that long .....

Denial, never admit anything,

As he would have to tell you he was on POF. and be guilty.

SSDGM what did he say?! what did she say?!

Well if he has form for this kind of thing he may think it's a previous woman he has mucked about. Even if he has guessed it's you it's him that's in the wrong. Hope you're doing OK and it's totally his loss as you sound awesome.

@SSDGM fucking Iove it! Didn't she know you existed?

So he's still texting catfish latest one is -

Very sad

Turn up now as you . " oh what are you doing here . If he is cross with you you know he thinks if you and you dump him there and then
If not Then get him to buy you a drink and food exoensive items and then dump him , then send him a link to this!

He is bluffing, he doesn't know for sure, he's just stabbing in the dark. You can either carry on as normal and he can't prove anything, or you can reply "yes, and now I know who you really are too don't I".

Send him a ‘sorry stepped in a puddle, got wet feet and nipped into Debenhams amd didn’t realise I’d been so long changing stockings and shoes

Sorry you found a shit hope 2018 is happier for you

Good on yiu for playing him, like he's playing you.

How about "are you still at the gym because I'll join you"?

He doesn't know it's you. He's got history with someone else on POF.

Brilliant! Now block and ignore. Agree pp ghosting hurts way more than a grand finale.

very sad?! sad of you, or sad because he didnt get to meet generic stock photo attractive 50 year old lady

WHat a shitbag! I wonder how many others he has met off pOF. OP get an STI test. Sorry you’ve been treated so badly. He deserved this.

I would tell him, "we both know who I really am, your dumped happy 2018.

SistersOfPercy

@RedTartanLass

Change your Whatsapp photo to the POF photo! See if he notices!

@AtlanticWaves he looked like he wanted to crawl up his own arsehole and die. I just laughed. She left, sharpish. Good, really as I had told his best friend’s girlfriend what I had discovered and she was ready to pin her up the wall 😂😂

We talked but I just laughed and laughed at him.

Tell him your famous and saw a newspaper photographer.

your so sorry would he like to rearrange

I wouldn't tell him it was you. I would carry on being nice for a few days and then ghost him.

If you ghost him now, he'll know it was you.

Wait a few days so he thinks it definitely couldn't have been you and then it'll kill him not knowing who it was and also why you've ghosted him

I am late to the party but well done OP! Can you not drag his pathetic ass further down by giving him a terrible excuse and trying to do this all over again? I would be very tempted to..!

@Kentnurse2015 she answered upthread!

Ok .... I've blocked him on POF .... now let's see if he contacts me on WhatsApp? Think it will be quiet for a bit! Will let you know as soon as anything happens .... well except for me crying!!

Wanker!

Omg @SSDGM you are my hero!

@redtartanlass yes, she knew he was married. She was too.

@redtartanlass yes, she knew he was married. She was too.