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Original poster

To make my bf wait hours for his blind date

567 replies

RedTartanLass · 04/01/2018 12:17

Ok so I've not been on here for years ...... but I'm raging. My bf has been behaving suspiciously so I checked online and right enough the wanker has a POF profile!

So I catfished him and we're meeting today at 12:30 ..... well he thinks we are ... I'm not turning up. Want to see how long I can make him wait!

If you're in Swindon feel free to give him a wave!!

Am I being unreasonable to make him wait a couple of hours. Will I be able to drag it out that long .....

OP posts:
Sammymommy · 04/01/2018 13:38

"You still haven’t answered what photo you used on the dating site.."
Since it is a blind date and the OP mentioned her (x) BF checking all the women walking past, one can assume there was no picture?

(Troll hunters have to be more annoying than the Daily Mail, and it is hard to do!)

BadPolicy · 04/01/2018 13:38

Would be good if you could word your last messages the same way. Then he'd suspect you knew, but would never be able to ask.

Original poster
RedTartanLass · 04/01/2018 13:39

So he's messaged 3 times

Ok not nice

Time waster

Please get a life think I know who u really are well done

OP posts:
pinkie1982 · 04/01/2018 13:39

I couldn't not let him know. I'd be bursting

Fellia · 04/01/2018 13:39

Do you think he knows it’s you OP?

Flowers
Kentnurse2015 · 04/01/2018 13:40

I’m not troll hunting at all. I just find it odd that the photo question hadn’t actually been answered

Itscurtainsforyou · 04/01/2018 13:40

So you think he might have twigged its you?

In that case I'd not contact him at all - either as you or on pof.

What a twat. Sorry op

pinkie1982 · 04/01/2018 13:40

Ohh so he thinks it could possibly be you? Or someone else?

Mxyzptlk · 04/01/2018 13:41

Kent, it has been answered. Keep up.

pinkie1982 · 04/01/2018 13:41

The photo question was answered earlier. OP googled an image

unicornpoopoop · 04/01/2018 13:41

Photo question was answered upthread

Mxyzptlk · 04/01/2018 13:42

He needs the red's boyfriend line.

Original poster
RedTartanLass · 04/01/2018 13:42

He's bluffing! No way he could know it was me ..... could he? Nah!!

He's just bluffing!!

Let see when/if he WhatsApps me!

I just can't see how he'd know it was me!

OP posts:
Cbaanymore123 · 04/01/2018 13:42

There's no way he knows it's you.

He must think it's another POF person for sure

Justbreathing · 04/01/2018 13:42

Sorry OP
he's a cunt. a proper old fashioned cunt. and he's angry at you for finding out that he's a cunt. and I could probably use the word cunt a lot more, but I shall refrain as I am a Lady

SSDGM · 04/01/2018 13:42

Tell him! It’s so delicious. I did a similar thing to an ex who was secretly arranging to see a woman when I was with him! When she walked in and he went straight up to her I joined in, introduced myself as his wife and said it was nice she could come because I could see from his text messages he had been missing her very much.

His. Fucking. Face.

MotherCupboard · 04/01/2018 13:43

Just ignore him as catfish and see what he does.

CoraPirbright · 04/01/2018 13:43

Oh goodness!! Even though he has now realised, I would message him on pof:"sorry but I saw you outside (cafe name) and I'm just not into that sort of thing". Screw with his mind!! What does that mean??!! Ugliness? Weedy? Too fat/thin/short/tall etc

Justbreathing · 04/01/2018 13:43

I would probably come to the conclusion I had been caught out by you.

EvilDoctorHogmanayDuck · 04/01/2018 13:43

I'm afraid I only go back as far as Angela Hernandez. Xmas Blush

SSDGM · 04/01/2018 13:44

What justbreathing said. How dare he get annoyed because you’ve discovered he’s an arsehole.

headintheproverbial · 04/01/2018 13:44

What an arse. I just can't believe how dishonest people can be (talking about BF, not you OP!).

TattyCat · 04/01/2018 13:44

Hmmm, chances are this is not the first time he's arranged a date, given his responses to you. He can't possibly know it's you - his responses don't fit. He clearly thinks it's someone else he's already had contact with.

TatianaLarina · 04/01/2018 13:44

Of course he thinks it’s the OP.

Technically he’s the one who needs to get a life.

Stupidwife · 04/01/2018 13:45

So sorry this has happened to you. I hope your ok?

I think he's bluffing, he doesn't know it's you