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Get your fucking foot off my seat!

188 replies

NewYearNiki · 03/01/2018 22:10

Sitting on an aircraft. Not taken off. The woman behind me keeps putting her foot up on my arm rest and knocking my elbow.

I've just elbowed her off.
In for a long flight.

OP posts:
Bostin · 05/01/2018 18:16

I’m glad you care about yourself cantuccit

pollymere · 05/01/2018 18:19

Echogirl...hope it wasn't me...seriously though I've had to recline my seat because the person in front of me has and otherwise my screen would be next to my face. It's awkward though as I try to sleep on flights and its hard to recline without invading the space of the person behind though. I've never put my feet up like that though and I get mega swollen feet. I'd have put my pillow in the gap or raised the armrest after take off. (Or reclined fully, something I never do unless the person behind is annoying me...if you ever kick MY seat you will face your entire flight with me on full recline and loud music)

ItMadeMyEyesWater · 05/01/2018 18:20

Ignorant bastard! WTF is wrong with these people?

alcin · 05/01/2018 18:23

There is a Facebook page, passenger shaming, if I recall right.
People posting photo of the minging thing done on flights.
I had a small chuckle to myself when I saw exdh on it with his foot on a seat.

NewYearNiki · 05/01/2018 18:29

I'd have put my pillow in the gap or raised the armrest after take off.

Why oh why didn't I think to raise the armrest.

Best suggestion so far.

Raise on both sides and she could not have done it at all.

As far as reclining goes, I never do it. I've seen people on 6am flights fall asleep bolt upright before take off. I've slept bolt upright in a car seat.

Perhaps seats should no longer be able to recline.

OP posts:
Bostin · 05/01/2018 18:29

Wowzers there is a lot of these feet people about (thank you for introducing me to passenger shaming Alvin!)

Bostin · 05/01/2018 18:30

alcin!

MrsKoala · 05/01/2018 18:36

20 years ago i flew to New York and the lady in front reclined her seat and i had to sit sideways with my feet in the aisle. The stewards told her she had to unrecline it. Then on the way back this little very elderly lady was sitting next to me and asked me to put her hand luggage in my foot well briefly while she sorted her bags out. I stood up and she pushed her bags all over my side and then put her ear phones on, stretched out and shut her eyes. I had no room for my feet, my knees were under my chin. I asked her to take them back and she said no she had no room. I called a steward over and they told her she had to take them back. She gave me daggers for the whole flight!

Once the woman in front reclined her seat and it went so far back the tray was hitting my dads chest and the seat was ridiculously close to his face. He called the steward over and she told the person in front they had to put it up. They were really angry, but the steward said the recline mechanism is only for night flying and as it was the day it shouldn't be used. They said they wished they could turn the mechanism off in the day as every flight was the same complaints.

ObscuredbyFog · 05/01/2018 18:43

There's a gadget called a Knee Defender but it causes controversy aboard if some passengers use it. Can't find much about it after 2014.

www.gadgetduck.com/

treeofhearts · 05/01/2018 18:43

I find that dramatically heaving and retching while scrambling for a bag makes most recliners sit back up sharpish. Grin

As for the foot woman, you should have unthreaded her laces and tied lots of random little things into them.

MsHarry · 05/01/2018 18:46

Just tell her to stop it and if she does it again summon the flight attendant.
This. no need to start elbowing people.

EdinaMonsoon · 05/01/2018 18:49

I find that dramatically heaving and retching while scrambling for a bag makes most recliners sit back up sharpish.

Treeofhearts That has really made me laugh! Will definitely be implementing this tactic next time I have an issue with another passenger on a flight - or even the train come to think of it!

SavvyFishFinger · 05/01/2018 19:10

I do not understand why the hostess and the captain are fucking around in the cabin. OK I get that people look great in uniforms, and the 'Mile High Club' whatever.......Hmm

I get that, but why would she run her stocking leg up the captains arm when they are just about to take off! Shock

And why the pillows and arm rests - is the plane on auto pilot? Confused

Amoregentlemanlikemanner · 05/01/2018 19:18

I like to think I would have applied disinfectant wipes to the foot, including sock

DSHathawayGivesMeFannyGallops · 05/01/2018 19:20

I am only 5'3 but issues with my joints mean I struggle to sit in a fixed position. People who fully recline essentially trap me and it's painful. I'd love the mechanism banned.

Once had someone recline so far back on me I could barely move. I was 12 at the time and he clearly reckoned that meant he could do as he liked. He shouted at me when I tried to uncross my legs - they were going numb, I'd held off as long as possible- and when I accidentally dropped my glasses and had to use my foot to edge them to where my dad could reach as no way I could bend forward, he went ballistic. Luckily the steward agreed with us and made him go upright for me to get my specs. And the same steward came back to tell the cunt off again when he decided the "seats up for landing" didn't apply to him. Cunt.

BooksandSunandGandT · 05/01/2018 19:36

One of the best things easyjet did when they brought in new planes a few years ago was remove the recline mechanism. They only fly short haul, so it’s not necessary and I think the minor discomfort to people who might wish to recline on their longest (5ish hour) flights, is worth it to avoid all this aggro day to day!
Not sure if other airlines do this as pretty much all of my short-haul flights are with easyJet, but it must save the airline a fortune in less complicated seating, never mind the less fractious atmosphere on board!

PurplePoppySeed · 05/01/2018 19:40

To all the people criticising someone with long legs, what are people like us meant to do - you can't actually buy extra leg room seats on most flights anymore, not unless you have frequent flyer pass of some sort. I do wonder why people actually think that's possible!

You can't chop your legs off but you can sit in your seat without the need to recline on the majority of flights.

I'm 5"10 and on a standard BA plane seat (more room than most) if I push my bum the the back of the seat, my knee still touches the seat in front. If I go for the isle I still have to get my legs in for the trollies and people walking to the loos. If someone reclines in front, I can just about cope by trying to slide my legs straight under their seat but I need warning or I'll be crippled by their chair as they move it.

As a result I do often fly BA Club Europe, booking ages in advance for good rates, but even then I realise I'm very lucky to be able to - I choose to do this so I get extra room for the kids too, but why the fuck should I or anyone else have to - it's about common curtesy, but these days that no longer exists.

Stop bashing the few tall people that have tried to explain why it might be inconsiderate to recline your chair. In case you haven't noticed, most people don't actually recline their seats on European flights any more.

MirriVan · 05/01/2018 20:02

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Booboo66 · 05/01/2018 20:10

OP I don’t think you could have raised that arm rest next to the plane wall. I’m certain they are fixed! I LOVE the water spray idea Grin

purplebunny2012 · 05/01/2018 20:21

I most definitely would have turned around after being ignored and said "Move your f***g foot before I break it off"

smilingontheinside · 05/01/2018 21:10

I'm not tall and on an 11 hour flight the chap in front of me fully reclined after take off and I had the top of his head lost under my nose. I asked if he could move up a little and was ignored. So I was very uncomfortable and when I could cope no longer tried to move my legs. He gave me daggers and huffed and puffed. Ivery suffered dvt and have to keep ankles mobile so had to keep asking him to sit up so I could stand and exercise my ankles. I had booked an aisle seat to help with this. I had to manouvere back into my seat everytime as he reclined as soon as I was out I'd my seat. I didn't sleep and didn't recline as we were against the back toilets so our seats didn't go back far I was trapped it was a nightmare. Hate reclining seats Wink

Munchkinbug · 05/01/2018 21:15

I haven't read all the messages, but I reckon you should stroke her toe slowly, whispering loudly, "so pretty...."

hahahahahahahhaaa!!!! If that doesn't make someone move, then yes, I'm afraid violence is the only solution.

:D

DavidBowiesNumber1 · 05/01/2018 22:15

WattdeEll Curious to know how you get that spray through security?

PavlovianLunge · 05/01/2018 22:23

David, there are shops after airport security, including, quite often, Boots. No great mystery.

DavidBowiesNumber1 · 05/01/2018 23:02

Thank you PavlovianLunge, I never go to the shops.