Would you call a land line at 9.30pm?

[Tinkerbec]

Someone has just called my home for my mother who is out. Waking up my dd.

I think it is way too late. I know its a Saturday but really!AIBU?

I find land lines intrusive at the best of times.
Grrrr! Not happy.

9pm is the latest I would call a landline.

YABU. After 11pm I'd say when most people will be in bed,

It depends whose, and what night of the week it is - essentially whether I can be fairly sure they're still up. 10pm is probably my landline cut off point, but earlier if the owner's habits dictate that.

You need to watch Curb your Enthusiasm. A whole episode dedicated to this question 😂

if i needed that person then i would call them at 9.30pm after 11ish unless it was urgent i wouldnt.
Surely thats the whole purpose of having a telephone so that people can call you.

10pm I'd say. Do you live with your mum? Only asking as maybe the person calling didn't know she had her grandchild staying ?

I actually don’t think that I know anyone under 70 with a landline. I can’t remeber the last time I called a landline other than for work.

I never call mobiles much either. Always text. I would text anytime really.

I wouldn't call a landline after 9pm except in special circumstances.

But I would happily text someone whenever

I am usually in bed by 9pm lol

Maybe he didn’t know my dd was in bed. If you know the person has children and it may wake them.
Turns out it was the vicar!

Surely after 8 is chilling time unless its an emergency or a close friend.
This is why I prefer mobiles.

It depends who I’m calling and what day it’s is really. Like I wouldn’t call my grandma at 10pm ever, but I know if I was to ring MIL or my mum then they would probably be up regardless of what day it is. In fact mum may well not be back from work by that point but dad would definitely still be up (not that he would likely answer the phone!!). Early mornings I wouldn’t call my mum before 7 as she would think someone had died, but MIL is up about 5.30am so I wouldn’t hesitate to call her at 6 or 7.

The only time it is acceptable to call a landline that late is to do the pre-agreed three rings to confirm home safely

9:30 late? Blimey. When did that get late?

We don't have a landline

After 8 for chilling and no calling? Wow. Many people don’t get in from work until around then. Many, many more won’t have had dinner. Your view of late is definitely off kilter, OP.

I wouldn’t ring any landline after 7.30.

9.30 is not late.

I really feel for the parents whose children can't sleep through the phone ringing. My DS would sleep through hoovering under the cot once you got him down so I ever worried about it but can see how that could be a problem with a light sleeper.

9.30 is late?

Haven't called a landline in at least 5 years.

I haven't had a landline since about 2004. It wouldn't even occur to me to ring anyone on their landline except my parents and my gran.

10pm would probably be my cut off to call a landline.

I wouldn’t say 9.30 was too late to call and if I was worried about anyone being wakened I would put my ringer off.

Not if you are calling DH. Someone rang him at 9.30 the other night on the landline and he was not impressed. I think it's different if you call a mobile as many of them are on silent so you shouldn't in theory disturb sleeping children etc. Whereas DAunt and her friends happily call landlines and wish each other good night at 11pm.

I'm under 70 years old
I have a landline
I make and receive calls to and from my landline up until 10pm
I also send text messages and make calls using my mobile
Does this mean I'm strange?

After 10pm, unless serious.
I have a landline, because mobile signal is so poor, where I live. Not that I know anyone to call me, unless it is a man from India, telling me that my computer has a problem.

Does anyone actually use a landline nowadays?