In real life, I have never heard anyone describe themselves as a SAHM, though most if the women I know don't work
Likewise. But when you say they don't work, you mean they don't get paid for working for a company. That's so misleading. If you don't have a paid job then you are free to pick up the slack when your working friends are in need. You can volunteer to work on the till or in the backroom at Oxfam. Or the Red Cross shops. Or any other charity that blows your skirt up.
I've not been in paid work for many years, yet I am never still and I work my socks off for the local community. For example Mencap.
Red Cross and Age UK. I do one afternoon and one morning per week, for each, on the till. I still have to get up at 7am to get a shower and do my hair right, in order to be presentable.
I do this because it's a good thing to do, and because it keeps me on my toes and stops me from getting 'old'.
My dh has always earned enough, maybe not to keep us in the lap of luxury, but enough to keep us out of debt.
One of our dd's has health problems which require me to be instantly available. I cannot take 'paid job' because I need to be able to walk out of my job and hotfoot to the hospital.
We are by no means 'rich' but we are not pushed for getting a meal on the table.
OP's post is a nonsense post Designed to cause argument.