I haven't had a NDE but I did have a woo experience and I don't know what it was. So I had a long difficult labour, things started going wrong and midwife called for assistance and doctor was in the room for about 10 seconds and they ran me through to theatre. DH just left standing there. I had a GA as there wasn't time for a spinal. Well I woke up and baby was fine and all was well and then I became aware of a white figure to my right just behind my shoulder, if I turned to look the figure moved back. For some reason I felt it was my late father. I was awake and aware enough to decide not to mention it to anyone in case they decided I was psychotic and took the baby away.
Through the night and all next day he stood next to me but all was well and then suddenly the baby started to choke. I called the midwife and she pressed a button for a doctor they then left in a hurry with baby. She had inhaled stuff and it suddenly affected her breathing, she had to have treatment to clear it all out. She was returned to me about 30 to 40 minutes later and she was fine. I suddenly realised that the figure had gone. So the way it seemed to me was when baby was distressed my father came and he stayed when everything seemed OK and after the episode when everything was OK he left.
Is that what happened? I don't know and I don't know why I was so sure it was my dad. I do know I was off any drugs and wasn't short of oxygen and my heart was normal and I do know the timings.
I don't know what to make of it so I don't suppose anyone else will either.