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To think the referendum results would have been different if the costs had been known?

245 replies

TammySwansonTwo · 29/11/2017 09:48

I mean, almost £60bn. Really? Who would actually have supported this? Apparently we have no money, the cupboards are bare, there's no magic money tree... oh, except the money for the DUP, and this.

And who's going to pay the price for this? Not the richest, that's for sure. More economy-crushing cuts coming our way!

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Rebeccaslicker · 29/11/2017 17:00

Yes absolutely. It's no coincidence that the countries with the lowest standard of living are also the countries where women have very few rights.

On an individual level it's impossible not to feel for anyone who is desperate enough to leave everything they know to move. But from a purely practical level, there has to be a line. Europe simply cannot accommodate an entire continent. And the countries that are seeing the most people leave will have no chance of progress if they lose their brightest and best.

Meanwhile the people smugglers continue to rake it in because all they have to do is overload a shitty boat and wait for the poor souls on board to be rescued.

Or not.

lessworriedaboutthecat · 29/11/2017 17:00

As I said upthread its funny how all the ones who are most pro-EU and think that Brexiters are the ones dreaming of Empire are also the people who are most in favour of careering around the world fixing peoples problems.

Motheroffourdragons · 29/11/2017 17:01

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RedToothBrush · 29/11/2017 17:04

How is dreaming of a Singapore style Brexit not dreaming of Empire?

lessworriedaboutthecat · 29/11/2017 17:04

The line between refugee's and economic migrants is very hard to define though. Is there a difference really between someone fleeing war and someone fleeing drought or just general miserable if not absolute poverty ?.

scaryteacher · 29/11/2017 17:05

MF We can pay the dues, but we will require our assets to be returned, or taken off the 'dues' (no mention of any dues in A50 as has already been stated).

I don't think that Canada is bound by the ECJ, nor is the US. I can't think of any non EU/EEA country that allows the ECJ jurisdiction over EU citizens living in their territory.

LurkingHusband · 29/11/2017 17:05

As I said upthread its funny how all the ones who are most pro-EU and think that Brexiters are the ones dreaming of Empire are also the people who are most in favour of careering around the world fixing peoples problems.

So the "Stop the War" marches were warm up for "We love leave ?"

Rebeccaslicker · 29/11/2017 17:07

Well that does depend on which report you read. I don't believe they are all from war torn countries, no. There's a lot of stories put about the promised land of Europe - often pushed by the people smugglers of course! - and many of these people come from all over. I think there are many economic migrants in the mix.

As I said, individually I totally understand that. Why on earth wouldn't you want to move somewhere that you had much better prospects? But there's only so many people that Europe can absorb. Which is why I would far rather see money pumped into the economies of those countries to try and spread the wealth rather than keeping it all in one place and having everyone piling on top of it.

LurkingHusband · 29/11/2017 17:07

I don't think that Canada is bound by the ECJ, nor is the US.

Two counties whose own citizens rights are backstopped by a written constitution.

Give me a UK written constitution as a Brexit by product (which won't happen by the way) and and I might start to rethink.

lessworriedaboutthecat · 29/11/2017 17:15

I would also point out that to the best of my knowledge there is no other trading block which requires of freedom. NAFTA doesn't.

Vitalogy · 29/11/2017 17:15

I decided to vote leave before all the campaigning started and still would now.

LurkingHusband · 29/11/2017 17:16

I would also point out that to the best of my knowledge there is no other trading block which requires of freedom. NAFTA doesn't.

Let join that then. Job done.

woman11017 · 29/11/2017 17:26

Poll for anyone interested:
@MartinSLewis
Today's twitter poll: Had you known, at the time of the Brexit vote, the UK'd end up paying up to €50bn to leave EU, and all the other shenanigans, how would you have voted? (compared to what you did vote)
twitter.com/MartinSLewis/status/935794627575255040

woman11017 · 29/11/2017 17:29

Results so far from 23 000 votes:

64%Remain (I voted remain)
03%Leave (I voted remain)
10%Remain (I voted leave)
23%Leave (I voted leave)

Vitalogy · 29/11/2017 17:34

I'm not on Twatter.

lessworriedaboutthecat · 29/11/2017 17:50

I'm not on twitter although its good to see those Putin Bots were clearly wasting their time.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 29/11/2017 17:53

You can still read it though vitalogy

Vitalogy · 29/11/2017 18:14

You can still read it though vitalogy I know but I couldn't vote in it. Wonder what the demographic of Twatter and the Martin Lewis website are.

Twitter Demographics

Total number of Twitter users in UK is 13 million.
37% of Twitter users are between ages of 18 and 29, 25% users are 30-49 years old.
54% of Twitter users earn more than $50,000 a year at least.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 29/11/2017 18:19

Rebecca Sadly the info you provided was made public after the EU regs were withdrawn. There is a great difference between standards and packaging regs, designed to make it cheaper to ship produce around the world, regardless of the costs involved in growing to that order.

Seriously, you do know about the amount of food being wasted every day across the EU, the mind numbing tonnage of fish thrown back due to a quota system that is impossible to adhere to (fish being unruly fuckers that swim where they want to). Put down the KoolAid dear!

Rebeccaslicker · 29/11/2017 18:21

Argh too many Rebeccas #confused #bananas #allaboutmemememe !

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 29/11/2017 18:25

Sorry vitalogy i see what you mean

I dont do twitter either

Sometimes i think thats really really good

CuriousaboutSamphire · 29/11/2017 18:28

Yet you still believe in Euromyths about straight bananas and cucumbers. erm..... it wasn't a myth... Google is your friend tanith

It does carry some semantics but basically the EU DID try to define the correct amount of bendiness and minimum length in bananas and cucumbers... many Spanish cucumber farmers took out huge loans to buy the equipment needed to ensure the minimum cure requirements for a Class 1 cucumber. Apparently because buying by weight simply isn't good enough. Uniformity is king!

This has led directly to the Ugly Fruit campaigns... uniformity in natural produce is wasteful!!

woman11017 · 29/11/2017 18:31

Is banana sovereignty worth £100b?

Figmentofmyimagination · 29/11/2017 18:31

Yes I'm sure they would be different, but confirmation bias, accentuated by group think and the human tendency to always throw good money after bad means that only the depressive realists are going to admit that now.

Vitalogy · 29/11/2017 18:33

Sometimes i think thats really really good I agree. It'd take away from my Mumsnet time too! Xmas Grin