Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

LBC.... Trans women and non trans women.

289 replies

therealposieparker · 21/11/2017 18:39

AIBU to expect us to be called women?

At first we're cis, then non men and now non-trans?

What the hell is happening?

OP posts:
FusionChefGeoff · 21/11/2017 20:38

Yes they are both women*

Even though only one of them believes it?*

This is genius. Sums up the ridiculous logic quite nicely.

FusionChefGeoff · 21/11/2017 20:39

Sorry bold fail - top 2 lines are quotes from pp

viques · 21/11/2017 20:40

lostmyemail

Thankyou, beautifully expressed. This is how things should be in a respectful and logical world, not one that has been hijacked by activists with a disruptive and divisive agenda.

VeraGrant · 21/11/2017 20:44

The speed with which this is happening is absolutely terrifying. And the charge is being led by women (particularly Justine Greening), which is most depressing of all. It’s like they are loving the thrill of feeling super right on and groovy - and point blank refusing to consider any inconvenient truths.

Like the ones I read of recently in an amazing letter sent to James O’Brien of LBC by a woman caller after he cut her off, calling her a bigot and religious fundamentalist because she was worried about mixed changing spaces (so much for his virtue signalling loud support for #metoo just the week before - I’m guessing he sees zero irony in this). This after the only answer he could give to her her excellent question ‘What does living as a girl even mean?’ was some spluttering tripe about wanting to play with toys traditionally associated with girls!

Anyhow I digress. I’m paraphrasing, but she essentially asked what the chances were that men were transitioning because they wanted to wipe arses in care homes, take home lower pay than men, and wonder if they’re going to be attacked whenever they get out of their car into a deserted high rise car park.

Surely it’s not just that they want to wear pretty dresses and lipstick (two desires completely absent in this particular non trans woman Smile)...but what else can it possibly be?

TopBitchoftheWitches · 21/11/2017 20:47

runners
Because those biological women (females) do not have a penis.

TopBitchoftheWitches · 21/11/2017 20:51

Posted too soon, no of course I don't think that of actual females with a vulva not a penis.

MakeMisogynyAHateCrime · 21/11/2017 20:55

AIBU to insist on identifying as a woman and kick up a huge fuss about being misgendered if someone refers to me as cis, non-male or non-trans?

If they can be offended or wounded by someone referring to them in other than their chosen manner why can't I be mortally offended and shout about it if someone calls me a cis-woman?

Oh yes because I was born a woman and I am therefore not valid.

StrawberryMummy90 · 21/11/2017 20:55

anyone that says they are a woman is a woman

Friend genuine question..

If tomorrow I wake up and say I’m a horse does that make me a horse? If not, why? What’s the difference?

I can’t get my head around anyone believing that if you say you’re something, then you’re it.

I’m a fucking millionaire in that case.

runners656 · 21/11/2017 20:57

what women dont have penis why does what genitals you have effect how you think say if a man has a tragic accident and his penis does that change people who are intersex ie have a penis and boobs no face hair

TopBitchoftheWitches · 21/11/2017 20:59

MakeMisogynyAHateCrime

The 'cis' thing pisses me right off, how is it ok for men who wish to identify as women rename us?

StrawberryMummy90 · 21/11/2017 21:01

what women dont have penis why does what genitals you have effect how you think say if a man has a tragic accident and his penis does that change people who are intersex ie have a penis and boobs no face hair

What on earth have you been smoking

user1471459936 · 21/11/2017 21:02

Haha! Runners. You're not really thinking clearly, eh?

TopBitchoftheWitches · 21/11/2017 21:03

runners

I can't even be arsed to try and reword what you said above.

Males have penis's (peni)? Women have vulvas.

Biology.

DeleteOrDecay · 21/11/2017 21:03

I find the term ‘cis’ offensive personally. I am a woman, a biological female. If a man wants to ‘transition’ and live as what he perceives is a woman that’s fine, but he is a transwoman. Not a biological woman.

ocelot41 · 21/11/2017 21:04

I have trans friends - I hear their pain and confusion and honour their right to try and find a self they can be happy with. I am happy to use the names (and pronouns) they choose for themselves. But the deal is, I get to name myself too. I am a woman. I don't really like the term cis much - it's superfluous and fussy. IRL, I have never met anyone who had a problem with that. It's a case of give respect, get respect

Teaformeplease · 21/11/2017 21:04

Friend someone who disagrees with your opinion on something is not committing a hate crime. Grow up FFS.

runners656 · 21/11/2017 21:07

yeah intersex does not excist apparently

CherryChasingDotMuncher · 21/11/2017 21:09

Don’t talk bollocks runner. We know for a fact intersex exists and it has nothing to do with trans

DeleteOrDecay · 21/11/2017 21:10

Intersex has nothing to do with being transConfused

StrawberryMummy90 · 21/11/2017 21:10

Don’t think anything excists

Nickynackynoodle · 21/11/2017 21:10

runner you don’t get to co-opt intersex people into this fantasy. It’s unfair and disingenuous.

You know precisely what you’re doing and I see right fucking through it.

DeleteOrDecay · 21/11/2017 21:11

Runners what’s your point? Intersex people aren’t trans.

CherryChasingDotMuncher · 21/11/2017 21:12

Sooooo...no one care to tell us the definition of woman if it isn’t adult human female?
What a refreshing change Hmm

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 21/11/2017 21:12

Intersex people aren’t trans

To be fair, a small number of intersex people may also be trans, but AFAIK it is pretty rare.