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To hate the now common usage of "santa"

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Creambun2 · 17/11/2017 19:04

Just this really. Santa is a vulgar Americanism.

What was wrong with father Christmas ffs.

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Vango · 17/11/2017 20:24

Grandma comes down from Scotland and wants to know what "Santa" has bought the children.

That's because Saint Nicholas (Santa) is the giver of gifts. Father Christmas is the jolly old visitor.

If I say it enough times someone will notice Grin.

ByThePowerOfRa · 17/11/2017 20:24

Have you not seen the incredibles?

I have and I immediately retract my cake suggestion Grin.

Eolian · 17/11/2017 20:25

YANBU. Father Christmas here. And, for the record, I don't froth about it or correct my dc or other people about it. But I don't like 'Santa'. To me (mfl teacher) santa is a feminine Spanish or Italian word for saint. Father Christmas is not female.

GherkinSnatch · 17/11/2017 20:27

bubblebubblepop Of course people here would make you feel welcome, I find it generally a very friendly area. But your DC would probably come home from school talking about Santa rather than FC, and if you had a reason to ever say Father Christmas to a locally raised person, they'd probably do a little internal eyebrow raise and think you were trying to be posh.

MissionItsPossible · 17/11/2017 20:27

Is it a regional thing? I'm from the West Midlands and have always referred to him as Father Christmas. Santa sounds too much like Fanta and I don't really like Fanta.

PodgeBod · 17/11/2017 20:28

Why all the Father Christmas hate? I grew up on a rough council estate in East London and everyone said it. Never occurred to me that it was stuffy or posh. I’ll admit that I thought Santa was an American term but I use it sometimes these days. I really dislike Santy though.

SuperBeagle · 17/11/2017 20:29

Never been Father Christmas in Australia. Always Santa.

TheWoollybacksWife · 17/11/2017 20:29

I grew up in a working class family in the north west of England in a town with lots of people with Irish heritage (including my own family). I called the Christmas gift-giver Father Christmas.

I have brought my children up in a town in the Midlands with lots of people with Irish heritage. They call the gift-giver Mum Santa.

Go figure.

Speaking to my friends locally I say Santa. When talking to my family I say Father Christmas. I am multi talented and can do simultaneous translations Xmas Grin.

iamyourequal · 17/11/2017 20:29

Always 'Santa Claus' to me too. The only people in Scotland who would say 'Father Christmas' are English toffs who have moved up here.

ByThePowerOfRa · 17/11/2017 20:29

@Vango

Did you know they aren’t actually the same person Wink?

PoppyPopcorn · 17/11/2017 20:30

I think it's probably more of a regional thing than a class thing

Totally - go into any middle class area in Scotland and ask a preschooler what "Father Christmas" is bringing them and you will get blank expressions. I never heard that term growing up except from my very southern English cousins.

watfordmummy · 17/11/2017 20:30

Nope in Scotland we always said Santa, only heard father Christ when we moved south!

HostaFireAndIce · 17/11/2017 20:30

Obviously not everyone, other than my granny, who says Father Christmas is like that though. That was the entire point of my post fgs!

Actually, the entire point of your post, fgs was that lots of people say 'Father Christmas' just to appear 'dead classy'. I was disputing that there are lots of people like that kicking around and challenging the implication that middle class people say 'Father Christmas' to keep up appearances. I'm middle class - I learnt to say 'Father Christmas' from my Northern parents.

Hebenon · 17/11/2017 20:31

I'm from London too, Podge, and everyone always said Father Christmas until relatively recently. And not all posh people either.

Wiggypudding · 17/11/2017 20:32

Apparently if you say Santa you are statistically more likely to put your tree up in November.

HostaFireAndIce · 17/11/2017 20:32

The only people in Scotland who would say 'Father Christmas' are English toffs who have moved up here.

Or English people, perhaps?

Vango · 17/11/2017 20:33

@ByThePowerOfRa I'm invisible, like Santa Father Christmas.

ByThePowerOfRa · 17/11/2017 20:34

Actually, the entire point of your post, fgs was that lots of people say 'Father Christmas' just to appear 'dead classy

Eh? No it wasn’t! That^ is the complete opposite of what I was trying to say. For clarity; my point was that when^ people think they’re being dead classy by adopting a certain term, it usually shows and sounds ridiculous. I didn’t comment on how many people who say FC are like this.

FlameCrestedTanager · 17/11/2017 20:35

I don't like it either, it was always Father Christmas to me growing up (northern, middle class I guess but not posh).

why12345 · 17/11/2017 20:36

He’s making a list and checking it twice.
Gonna find out who’s naughty and nice
SANTA Claus is coming to tooowwwnnn!!
🎅🏻 🎄

Redglitter · 17/11/2017 20:36

No it hasn't always been santa in Scotland actually

It has in all the places I lived when I was growing up. It's been Santa for over 40 odd years. It's definitely not at Americanism

Strokethefurrywall · 17/11/2017 20:36

Grew up in London and it was Father Christmas - I now live in the Caribbean and its Santa. DH is Scottish and says Santa, the kids say Santa.

How sad do you have to be to get worked up about this?

iamyourequal · 17/11/2017 20:37

*KittiKat

I married into a Scottish family. I am from deep down South. I always knew the present giver as "Father Christmas". Grandma comes down from Scotland and wants to know what "Santa" has bought the children. Cue children looking at me and wondering who this Santa person is...*

... perhaps you (or your presumably Scottish husband) could enrich the cultural heritage of your children by explaining to them who Santa Claus is, and that it is he who comes down the chimney in Scotland at Christmas.

BenLui · 17/11/2017 20:37

Podge I don’t have any Father Christmas hate.

What I do have a problem with is people telling me my cultural traditions are vulgar American imports.

ByThePowerOfRa · 17/11/2017 20:37

@hosta

And my other point was that people do just happen to say it because that’s what they always said.

Are you taking the bit I quoted in the post you take issue with and assuming I wrote that? The first bit about uptight middle class try hates? Because that wasn’t me. I was gently contradicting that, by saying that yes, those people do exist, (they do, sorry. I’ve met them), but not all people who say FC are like that.

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