To ask you who you secretly fancy in RL?

[Midge1978]

Obviously we wouldn’t act on it but just for fun!

I used to live abroad and out there you had paediatricians for children rather than GP's. After a bad experience with one I went to another one recommended by a friend. I arrived in the office, looking like shit in a tracksuit after no sleep with an ill 2 year old and looked around and wondered why all the other women were made up to the nine's looking like they were off to a party. Then the doctor came out of his office... I never turned up without makeup and nice clothes again and he featured heavily in my daydreams for years to come 😂

I have a huuuuge crush on another dad at school. It’s painful. I think it also could be mutual. Painful all round!

I tend to fancy people depending on their personality and skills rather than their looks. I used to have a crush on my elderly Thai doctor - I would never have looked twice in normal circumstances but the dr thing - I don't know, it does it for me - intelligent, caring, position of power ...

I also have a thing for men that are tough and can fight as draconian as it sounds. Boxers, martial artists - doesn't matter what they look like or how old they are!

Oh Roxy how awful. So heartbreaking as all the feelings probably have returned plus more, wanting to support and help him through his illness. .

Haha disco! My OH is a doctor and (okay I'm biased) literally the hottest man I've ever seen, on screen or in person. He gets hit on several times per week by colleagues and patients. I can totally imagine that scenario you describe being him someday! Can't blame them, I'd be delighted if I'd come across him in a work setting and probably not get much work done swooning at him.

Bloke who is mending our roof. Whilst he has been here he has also sorted out my dishwasher leak, two door locks and an electrical light. Oh, and a gate that doesn't close. All without me having to ask. Not sure if it's actually him or the fact I am getting loads of jobs done around the house 😳😳😳😳

Wow doctors are certainly popular!

My boss

My Dentist. He looks like Dr Ranj 😍

I met my boyband crush last night and I fancy him even more now! He even remembered that I'd tweeted him! I have a picture of us hugging and I can't help but smile when I look at it. Hope I meet him again one day, just happy he knows who I am now!

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A colleague I met on a work trip a few months ago. Eyes met, massive sparks, proper teenage style crush... the problem is that I’m married, but even worse... my feelings are reciprocated. Nothing happened, but my god it was a weird few days with my body wanting him and my brain telling me to stay away. Happy fancying him from afar knowing that as I’m unlikely to go on another trip I won’t ever meet him again.

The Costa Coffee tech guy with the amazing moustache!