To ask you who you secretly fancy in RL?

[Midge1978]

Obviously we wouldn’t act on it but just for fun!

Silver fox I see when out walking. He walks to /from work and annoyingly doesn’t keep regular hours which makes perving at him extremely difficult. When I do get lucky I grin like an idiot at him and always say hi. Don’t think he’s ever really noticed.

My dc teacher - he has the most amazing green eyes I'm sure at parents evening I was listening to him talk about dc dh doesn't know about this one

I met the most gorgeous farmer about 3 months ago at work - oh my he was heavenly - the things I imagined doing to him...well they were rude.

And I have the worst crush ever on the vet I actually turn into a bumbling idiot...dh finds this highly amusing

Aside from my imaginary husband (as per my username)... I too have a crush on a friend. He’s attached which makes it better and worse at the same time 🙈

My two line managers. I blush - a lot.

A vet I used to work with, a big bear of a man. I used to get all flustered and awkward when I had to talk to him. Then when my little old dog had to be put to sleep it was him who did it, and after it was all over and completely out of the blue he enveloped me in a huge hug and let me sob all over his shirt. It was a lot easier to be around him after that

Literally nobody! Still in that crazy love lust gazing phase with DP (only been just past a year and a bit), fancy him so much I've not even been able to look at anyone else since we met 😍

Can't believe this thread popped up tonight! I've spent the weekend wrestling with the fact that there's a mutual attraction between a new friend and me. I'm in a relationship, very happily and would never do anything but my God - I want to fuck this guy.

Aww baggy that's lovely. Sorry about your dog though

Guy from coop down the road 😋

When I was younger I had a huge, huge crush on another woman. She was one of the directors of the company I worked for and was over 30 years older than me. Totally inappropriate but something about her made me all 😍

My personal trainer, such a cliche!

One of my DJs.

A chap on my train. He gets on and off at my stop and I fancy him like mad. He has got a partner though and I’m married with two small children. I also seem to see him at odd events in our town at the weekends when I look a bloody mess - probably for the best.

A medical specialist that I see regularly with my son. Don't know what it is, but I get very flustered and find it difficult to concentrate on medical issues ;)

I fancy someone at work like mad, he’s 5 years younger and has a girlfriend. He just has the loveliest smile!!

However, I don’t have any real crushes on anyone as I still have feelings for someone I shouldn’t. Stops me from getting involved with anyone else which is handy I don’t need the drama, had enough trouble with men and I’m only mid twenties

My uncles mate - he fancies me too but obviously never could or would

When I was at school and in about year 10-11 it was my English teacher (Who I think is gay) I couldn't concentrate. It was awful. I kept thinking well how wrong is it actaully?
I bumped into him out and about a few weeks ago and ooh I still would. 🙈

I've just remembered one. Some years ago, while still with ex, we went to a tourist attraction. One of the chaps admitting us was my type. I had a total rush of, well, lust at that moment and just couldn't look him in the eye. Could have jumped him there and then. Never seen since but wow, I never had that reaction with ex at all......

My NDN

A graduate vet at work. He's only about 35 years younger than me, could totally work

The builder who works down the road

Another one here with a thing for a colleague. He's lovely, kind and funny. We've always had a flirty relationship but it's now progressed to inappropriate messaging. which is awful cos he is in an (unhappy) relationship. I know I need to stop but it's hard

Colleague. We are both happily married with kids so I would never actually want to do anything for real, but my word if there were no such thing as consequences I would sap him dry as a raisin.

And colleague isn't lovely or kind or anything. Just speaks directly to my funbox, by-passing my brain!