Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask you who you secretly fancy in RL?

212 replies

Midge1978 · 21/10/2017 21:50

Obviously we wouldn’t act on it but just for fun!

OP posts:
RiversrunWoodville · 21/10/2017 22:18

My dd1s friends dad (worse we have ended up getting sort of friendly with them) Blush

MyfanwyMontez · 21/10/2017 22:22

My son's PE teacher. And he's probably young enough to be my son!

oldlaundbooth · 21/10/2017 22:23

Elderly GP too here.

I reckon he's about 70.

ownedbySWD · 21/10/2017 22:24

The vet.

Auldspinster · 21/10/2017 22:26

Colleague, so not my type but gives me total fanny gallops.

BriechonCheese · 21/10/2017 22:26

My neighbour - we share the same sense of humour and despite not being my type physically he makes me go all shy and bashful. Blush There is this weird (one sided, I'm sure) tension when we talk.

There is a nurse at the fracture clinic who is physically, the most attractive man I have ever laid eyes on. I go a bit funny when I see him.

AuntyElle · 21/10/2017 22:26

My pharmacist. Gorgeous Georgie accent and so lovely.

NancyDonahue · 21/10/2017 22:27

No one. I'm glad because I've suffered with agonising crushes in the past and I don't like the thought that I could lose control and do something I'd regret!

GerrytheBerry · 21/10/2017 22:29

Fanny gallops!!

IndianaMoleWoman · 21/10/2017 22:32

Also a GP! Not old though. But gorgeous and lovely, despite looking a bit like Gus Fring from Breaking Bad.

I have a real thing for nice guys. Also the (super nice) IT guy where I used to work. We’re Facebook friends and he’s just taken his girlfriend to Paris for her birthday - so cute!

MissMoneyPennies · 21/10/2017 22:33

One of our clients at work. I like talking to him. I like his smile, his voice, his clothes, everything about him. He’s a lovely person inside and out. I’m 44 he is 21. I’m happily married and he’s got a gorgeous new girlfriend his own age. I’m happy for him. I still think if I was 20 years younger....

MissWimpyDimple · 21/10/2017 22:33

My friends brother. 😍

MissWimpyDimple · 21/10/2017 22:34

Annoyingly he’s single, I’m single blah blah. But it’s just gonna be a no. 😔

Freshprincess · 21/10/2017 22:37

Colleague. I'd never paid much attention to him as he always looks like he just got out of bed and wears his trousers round his arse. But he was wearing a suit when we had clients in and I realised he's quite good looking. And he fixed my sons laptop for me.

Son's football coach, although I've gone off him a bit since realising he's a lot younger than I first thought when he Cancelled training because it was his mums 50th birthday.

I need to find some people my own age to fancy.

Excitedforxmas · 21/10/2017 22:37

My gp! My hubbie does know though lol

Whisky2014 · 21/10/2017 22:39

2 guys at work

ChanandlerBongsNeighbour · 21/10/2017 22:39

The headteacher at the first school I did my training placement at! A real life embodiment of how I imagined Heathcliff to be, dark and rugged with the most piercing blue eyes! And broadest Yorkshire accent! I can't have been the only one!!

RandomUsernameHere · 21/10/2017 22:39

Can't really think of anyone in RL, how boring am I?! There just aren't many good looking men where we live/in our friendship group 🙁

BelleandBeast · 21/10/2017 22:40

My DC's headmaster. He's not traditionally good looking, but when I see him, I'm in bits! Blush

bellalou1234 · 21/10/2017 22:41

A uni tutor way too old for men but I sit dreaming all lectures!

Wetwashing00 · 21/10/2017 22:46

A guy at Work, 2 guys actually. One the same age as me 1 is a lot younger (legal age tho)

Funko · 21/10/2017 22:51

Colleague. 10 years younger. An absolute delight and fucking gorgeous (and he really doesn’t know it). Funny, kind, an absolute gent.

My god if the poor guy knew about my filthy thoughts....

He was under a desk the other day messing with cables and I revelled in the view of his lovely arse for some minutes.

I love it though, total guilty pleasure Grin

RJnomore1 · 21/10/2017 22:58

Emm...

Absolutely no one. I did kinda fancy. Friend about ten years ago but we are away beyond that now and a colleague about 15 years ago but he's gone to seed. I felt awful About both abut as someone said I'm married not dead, im bound to notice attractive men but I ain't doing anything about it.

I am ridiculously fussy and apart from keanu from eastenders the only person I fancy at present is dh. He's definitely the best looking bloke I know.

ImTakingTheEssence · 21/10/2017 23:03

Someone i work with he asked me out i said i have a partner. I think of him constantly. I ignore him now when i see him because i dont know how to behave around him. Ive deleted him off fb and feel a cow for doing it!

BishopstonFaffing · 21/10/2017 23:19

Bottlebeach - does his name begin with T?

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.